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sunbrite4444 
8:18pm, August 19, 2009
I should have done the non contact thing from the start. I'm starting now though, have already started. I don't want to acknowledge him. Know anything about him, and just don't want to talk to him at all. I'm still angry though. Angry because I forgave him for his faults so many times, but the minute he has a problem instead of talking about it, totally blinsided me though. That's what has been the toughest to deal with.
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I'm proud of you!!!!! No contact is the best way to cut him out and move on... even tho its also the toughest thing to do!!! You are already stronger than you were a month ago! Keep it up!
SAbrokenheart
No contact is difficult b/c it also means allowing them to move on from you. It's letting go of an shred of control you may have been grasping for as well as false hope. I'm only six weeks into it (no contact). Can't say that I feel better...some days I am in agony...but I will listen to my wiser more experienced DS friends on this one. I'm with you.
RedRapunzel