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My idea on what love is Mood
Tuesday, April 28, 2009 | A Positive story
What is love?  Some people say it does'nt exist but I think it does just not in the way most people think it is or should be.  To me true love is something you feel regardless of the fact that most of the time you don't get it back.  It is odd to find a couple who shares the same amount of feeling for each other.  Usually one likes and the other loves making the latter the one keeping the relationship going, that's where pain comes in.  You see because usually the one that likes takes advantage of the one that loves because he/she knows what the other one feels. 

I can say i've had my fair share on both sides of that story but i've never been in a relationship where both sides share the same feeling what others call true love but I call Mutual Love.  And although I believe in love I don't believe in eternal love, leave that to the fairytales this is real life people.  Something always happens that breaks the pretty little spell be it a third person (which is what usually happens), communication problems, economical problems or the usual "I-just-got-bored-of-you" problem.  It is'nt gonna last forever.  But that does'nt mean it can't be good while it lasts you just have to learn to let go when theres nothing left of that fire.  It's not good to be in a loveless relationship that just makes people bitter and bitchy.

So I can say I believe in love and second chances but I don't believe in confusing violence with love.  If someone is violent then that person does'nt love you and if you're in a violent relationship dont wait till it's too late get out as soon as you can.  I did.
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