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marknreno 
1:06am Monday
I own the condo JR and I are living in, but I am seriously thinking about moving out. Today we went to Virginia City and it totally suck. I went to the bathroom, and then had to spend over an hour trying to find him again. This makes sense, because he can spend a 1/2 hour is the smallest shop, but suddenly he in no where to be seen. He pretends that it is my fault, but I think he was playing a mind game with me.
I looked at a cheap apartment a few weeks ago, and I think I may go through with it. I will move, give him three months to move out, and then figure out what to do with this place (which he has virtually destroyed.)
One the up side, work is good. I was so smart to make the change I made over a year ago. I took a slight cut in pay, but I am like 10 x happier. I got a very positive evaluation on Friday, and I got no crap for my use of FMLA.
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He Mark....Calm down man. I know where you are comming from. There's NO since in making yourself sick buddy. Believe me I know 1st hand. You want to talk. Hit me up.
OK ? Rob
Rob4Support
Dude,
HE has to move, not you, otherwise he'll completely gut your investment.
Been there, done that, protect yourself.
mycolours
Good advice guys. Don't know what I am going to do.
marknreno
Yeah, since you own it, I don't see why you would be the one to move out. If you move, you lose a lot of your leverage over him. If you are serious about having him move, give him 30 days notice. Put it in writing and try to follow your state's eviction procedure, so if he refuses to leave, you have a legal leg to stand on and don't have to start the process all over again because you skipped some procedural step. Instead of spending your money on an apartment, you might invest in a consultation with an attorney who can walk you through what you need to do legally to get him out.
Beesley
Also very good advice. I actually was in a class a few years ago with an attorney that deals with "significant other" issues. I even liked her.
marknreno
Sounds like some good advice up there, Mark. Protect yourself, and draw off that good energy from work. You've got the upper hand here.
BigDog1