i'm writing in here now because i have a secrete. i know something that has the potential to actually hurt someone, Kazza and tear apart a friendship. she has every right to know about, it may not involve her but she does have a right to know but then when i think about it i dont think she should know because she doesn't need to be lied to but if i tell her it will not only hurt her although she does have this odd ability to know when people are hiding things from her and when they are lying to her. i'm not sure how she does it but she does. if she knows already then it might not hurt her but if she doesn't it will hurt her and possibly end a friendship. so i dont know what to do. do i tell her and risk her getting hurt and ending a friendship that was a good thing (maybe a bad thing, i dont know) or dont i tell her? i know i cant really call it a secrete because if i do tell her then its no longer a secrete for i couldn't keep it. do you see my problem? i know that if kazza doesn't know by now an i tell her well i know it as a potential to backfire on me but also has the potential to severely hurt kazza an put any sort of treatment on hold plus ruin a perfectly good friendship but the thing is i cant stand with what i know and she does not know. i could risk it and tell her what i know and she could simply say "i know already" or it runs another course. i know we all keep things from our friends but when you know something that involves a friend. what then?