Journal Entry for June 30, 2009
June 30, 2009 10:14pm
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thomas64p1
10:25am, June 28, 2009
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About Me
thomas64p1
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About Me
Facilitator (counseling, PT), small family-not emotionally close, realist, currently going for master's in psych If you are in need of help (crisis) please contact a number listed in the website immediately, someone will listen to your needs-whether you believe it or not, you are important to someone
Facilitator (counseling, PT), small family-not emotionally close, realist, currently going for master's in psych If you are in need of help (crisis) please contact a number listed in the website immediately, someone will listen to your needs-whether you believe it or not, you are important to someone
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Trying to move on
May 24, 2009 9:18am
Well today is Sunday and I'm going to work today. I'd like to get more hours to keep myself occupied to keep from getting lonely and to talk …
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Borderline
April 16, 2009 9:35am
Dealing with and loving a borderline isn't easy. I married a border/PTSD from Nigeria who claimed she was in med school to be an eye doctor but …
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Journal Entry for April 14, 2009
April 14, 2009 1:36pm
First of all I'd like to start by saying I'm new to this and am interested in what the concept of the program is, and how to manage the site. …
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Moment of Peace
Hey Thomas, how's school going? well my gpa went down from a 3.7 to a 3.; this recession is killing everybody's pockets I mean thanksgiving & xmas wont be the same anymore...it sux big time! anyways just wanted to say hello:)
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I dont blame you school can tire you out and thinking hard..lol have fun on vacation yes the school is good its just that my tuition doesnt cover my books...If I have known this i wouldnt have went on with this program. ttyl
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Thanks
Hey thomas started 3rd course 2day how's it going on your end? thanks 4 joining my age gap group thats means alot!
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Hey thomas thanks 4 the feedback, how's school coming? Im almost done with the 2nd course. WOW, online courses are faster than in-person college...thats cool
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Thomas, how's it going? my next course is eng 121 I have a 3.7 gpa so far!!! yay 4 me. I wanted to thank you for joinging my age gap group & hopefully you can help me get more members if thats ok with you. Thanks alot! Goodluck in school.
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Close Breakups & Divorce
Married Nigerian woman who was in abusive, rape, relationships. She BPD, PTSD, hypervigilant, made allegations; me shy, early depression, overcame, difficulty dealing with allegations, and provokations. Difficulty moving on because of allegations although false. No one to talk to about feelings. Want to move on.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Focused on spouses provokations and my fear of rejection; counseling only effective when went together
- Reading Somewhat Helpful
- School, helps somewhat with lonlyness
- Talking Working / Worked
- Difficult ot find someone to relate to, family not supportive throughout development
Close Adoption
I have a 4 year old daughter that has entered a new relationship and I'm hoping the new man will adopt so she can be part of a new family. I love my daughter but her mother made some serious allegations that were unfounded, but I need to protect myself from her mother's illness or personality.
Open Anger Management
My story has to do with a combination of being irritable from chronic sinusitus and being once married to a borderline who liked to provoke outrage and wouldn't give space when asked for
Open Anxiety
Well to start, I always had a fear of public speaking and being rejected. I learned to overcome the public speaking fear and enjoy speaking, but am still quite nervous, the fear of rejection isn't that easy although I came to realize everyone is at one time or another rejected.
Treatments
- Ativan Working / Worked
- Breathing Exercises Somewhat Helpful
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- worked great, and still does
- St. John\'s Wort Working / Worked
Open Child Support & Custody
Hello all, I'm paying support for two children and don't have custody of either, one because my ex doesn't want me contacting when I left, the other because my ex made sick allegations which she continues to make and I need to stay away to protect myself and career from her destructive ways.
Open Depression
Hello all, I was depressed for most of my adolescent years and early adult until reading up on cognitive thinking and how it helps those when medication hasn't. It really helps when meds aren't effective. It just doesn't help with shyness :)
Treatments
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Working / Worked
- worked great, treated self with Beck's book on being happy for people with depression
Open Personality Disorders
Type: Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)I married a borderline personality disorder from Nigeria who would be considered by definition high functioning with PTSD
Open Interracial Relationships
I was married to and divorced two African American women
Open Loneliness
Alone after second marriage and after ex made false allegations of abuse. No support from family due to child between ex and self and continued allegations which family doesn't know who or what to believe
Open Shyness
Shy due to avoidant attachment and rejection in early years of development, limited social experience between ages of 15-35 with intense shyness around women that is diminishing
Open Family Issues
No family contact after relationship with possible BPD and PTSD woman who made and continues to make false allegations of abuse which family doesn't know who or what to believe. Family doesn't understand seriousness of allegations and wants to maintain contact due to child between two of us.
Open Healthy Sex
Need to find a healthy relationship
Open DailyStrength Members Community
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