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jkbearhug
Female, 55, WI
"29 done, 19 to go"
3:01pm
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Monday, October 26, 2009 | A Frustrating story

Surprised Remember just a month ago when I was battling with the short term disability insurance company?  (Yes my journal posts are missing from Aug 30 to Oct 18!) The stress I felt from that was NOT good.

 

Frown Now, short term is ending on 10/30.  Spoke with long term people today........OH to recieive LTD you have to have applied for SSD, the reason that was not started earlier was because of that month my appeal was being denied..............NO ONE ever told me I had to go through this process. Yell So not only is my pay being lowered again I have to start filling out paperwork for SSD. I have cut out so many things in my life because of this and now more?

 

Of course nothing ever happens fast enough for me. NOT patient in these matters, feel frustrasted and tearful for just having to go through all this..................Frown

 

You know if I could just physically handle my job I wouldn't be going through all this and but my employer is not willing to compromise.  Cry

 

Big sigh, such is the journey of life...................

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  1. Justmeinmo

    that sucks Babe. Hopefully something will work out for u soon.


    Justmeinmo

  2. debbear

    Its just BS JK.....the hoops these companies make you jump through to get things you have paid in for, and they gladly take your $$, but when it comes to giving anything back, they look for any and every loophole they can find!!!!!!!! Makes ya wanna take a gun and shot em all!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I hope and pray it all works out for ya:)


    debbear

  3. jkbearhug

    Would you help me bear? Give me a mask too! They'll never know what hit em!


    jkbearhug

  4. Brok2wings

    jk...you hang in there! It's ashame companies don't take care of their employees any more...debbear is right...they seem to find every loop hole to get out of paying you...instead of trying to help you. I will say a prayer for you...~J


    Brok2wings

  5. Tere1

    Sorry to hear about the royal run around. People have no idea what it is to be on this treatment. No sympathy or pity from any insurance company or the state.
    Good luck in all of this.


    Tere1

  6. debbear

    I sure will help you.and we'll gather all of our friends and it will be a mass-attack........like you said, they will never know what hit em!!!!!!!!! Jerks!!!!!!!


    debbear

  7. ophanim

    All these hoops to jump through...just remember, it's worth it to take care of yourself as best you can!


    ophanim

  8. KaryMelly

    JK, here's a website from a law firm in LaCrosse that has tips about filing for SSD. They also list a SSD website to refer to for help:

    http://www.brandau-waltz.com/Socia...


    KaryMelly

  9. rbm

    I'm sorry, JK. Hope it works out for you!


    rbm

  10. Cydne1

    Roll up those sleeves and start that SSD ball rolling. It sucks but thats the paper trail we all know and hate. I have friends that had to go through this and when they finally got their money they had a big fat back pay settlement. I know its not great now but it will work out, hugs.


    Cydne1

  11. jkbearhug

    Thanks for all your info.............


    jkbearhug

  12. Barb99999999

    sounds like crap to me. You would think the short term would be the same grrrrrrr.


    Barb99999999

  13. freeasthebreeze

    Dont give up, keep up the fight, if you do ,things will turn out for you. It never seems fair, but you can win.


    freeasthebreeze

  14. scumm311

    That's terrible!!


    scumm311

  15. Mckenzie

    Sorry to hear about that!


    MckenzieCommunity Leader

  16. kittykat13

    I'm sorry to hear this! keep fighting though. Anything worthwhile is worth the fight.... Been there myself!


    kittykat13

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