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TripletmomNtwo 
5:42pm, June 16, 2009
I am ready to just give up!
I feel like a worthless failure of a mom. My boys Dad and I are divorced and we share the children 50\50 However my boys are starting to not want to be with me. I cant do everythng that they want me to do and I cant afford everything that they want. Last night I found out that my boys father and GF went out and bought them all new 4 wheelers and a camp trailer. besides all the other stuff they get ob a daily rate. They spoil them like crazy. I know love is more than money but how to I explain that to 8 years old boys. I cant! They only see that their dad and gf does all this stuff for them and with them and mom cant. Recently over the last month they have been wanting to stay with their dad more and more. It brakes my heart. I really do try the best that I can to do things with them and to afford to get them the things that they would like to have. I dont have a job right now and they tell me their dad said I was a worthless bitch and that my sickness is all in my head. Hmmm ok. So my boys now say to me why dont you get up and get a job mom? So we have more money to buy things like their dad does. I know its not their fault its their dad talking. He has been turning them against me. I hate it! It has destroyed me! I also have no support here at my home, and I feel like maybe everyone would be happy and better off if I was gone. I dont want to sound selfish but I truly feel that maybe everyones lives would be better if I just wasnt in it. There really is so much more going on but I am going to stop for now. I need to try and take a breather........
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no no no.....dont go away everyones lives, mine included would be destroyed, u are the nicest, most caring person, ur kids they're young, and ur ex is such a kshdfklsjasls he shouldnt be telling 8 y/o that he sooo stupid! remember ur boys love u, they just like the toys, im sure if they lived with ther dad the toys will get less and less because he'll be paying for everything else, like u are now
Itzjustme
Oh my god that's dreadful I'm so sorry. Sounds like the boys would be better off with you all the time without their father filling their heads with his ignorance. Is there someone neutral who can talk to your ex? They will come round as they get older, young children tend to be materialistic but they will learn and appreciate you all the more xx
MadeofIron
Jade... Don't let your ex get the best of you!! You need to keep reminding yourself that your the better person, It sounds as though your ex is a boy himself if he is going to down play you!! That is not fair to you or the boys, In time the boys will relize what there dad is doing and go against him later!! Your doing the best you can and that is all you can do.. Your very importent to your family and friends so you would be a failer to us all not just yourself...
I could only imagine what you've been though and are going though today but don't let your ex take what is left from you!!
Hang in there..
Lots of hugs, Michelle
Michelle2
bear hugs Jade, i'm sorry your ex is trying to turn your boys against u. trust that the bond u have built with your sons is strong enough to counteract any negative overtures your es is feeding them. one day soon they will understand y u are not able to do everything your ex does for them. all the things he does for them r superficial. big, shiny, new things will only wow them for so long. keep battling.
bear hugs
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