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About Me
SusanCD
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About Me
Married for nearly 19 years to my best friend. Met Scott in college. Just moved to our community a few months before diagnosis. Now I am alone in the house we always wanted. Nothing big and special but that is how we are.
Married for nearly 19 years to my best friend. Met Scott in college. Just moved to our community a few months before diagnosis. Now I am alone in the house we always wanted. Nothing big and special but that is how we are.
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8 hugs received, 4 hugs given, 1 journal comment, 1 photo comment
Today
Tuesday
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SusanCD gave Cyndi321 an I'm with you 10:09pm
Thanks for your post about the holiday and your plans. I too have been abandoned by friends, and many…
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SusanCD gave missmyhero a hug 9:56pm
Diana, No they don't understand. As the day draws closer I am more and more emotional and unable to hold…
November 19
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SusanCD commented on KipB’s journal entry The "Worry Room"... 9:08pm
Kip, My Scott left in our wonderful family room in the spot where his recliner was. He napped in it,…
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SusanCD commented on missulance’s photo 8:56pm
Oh, it goes so fast! What a nice picture to remember senior year and band.…
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Have a peaceful Thanksgiving Susan.!
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Thanks Susan, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sorry you are spending Thanksgiving alone missing Scott but I am with you on that. I politely declined the invitation for dinner & am going to spend Thanksgiving at home alone missing my Larry. Noone can rush us to get better or be "over it". We'll know when it's time I think.
I have found a lot of love & support on DS & it makes me feel less alone. You all definately "get it" & it's so nice knowing that friends are never really far away.
I will be thinking of you this Thanksgiving & hoping you feel Scott's spirit & love all around to comfort you. This is so hard but we will get through it.. hang in there! Love & prayers for stength,
Cyndi 
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Dear Susan-thinking of you over this difficult time...Hugs Janine
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Thinking of you over this difficult week. Hugs Janine
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Little Love
Hi Susan,
I wanted to send you a little love as we watch the days go by and it get closer to a time that the world just does not understand. It seems like every person that I see says "Happy Thanksgiving" as I leave...the grocery store, when I go to pay bills, the gas station attendant, you name it. I just numbly say, yup and walk away...not wanting to tell yet another person why this won't be a Happy Thanksgiving this year and I don't know if I will ever have another happy one as long as I live....which by my estimates seem like too much of forever without the person that made it all worth doing.
Anyway, hope you are hanging in there.
Many hugs too...
-Diana
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/SpouseMy husband and best friend lost battle with cancer (brain tumors) April 1. He had been fighting for nearly 17 months, and though the Drs gave up on him at Thanksgiving, he kept fighting and was making progress. His loss is bigger than words. He was my world
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- Crying Too Soon to Tell
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- So far it seems to help to talk to someone outside.
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- They miss him too
- Support from Friends & Family Too Soon to Tell
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Close Widows & Widowers
My husband and best friend died April 1 after a 17 month fight with braintumors. He was doing well and we were shocked. I am still trying to put together the pieces of my new life without him.
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