Hugs...
No big chapter to write today, just a big hug to everyone who passes through, especially all who need one. It does no cost a thing! Someone cares...
I am a 44 yo retired professional that is trying to get a business off the ground. I was previously married with two kids to a wonderful man who passed away from cancer. I am currently engaged to man that I have been dating for 5 years. I know he is a cheater although I have not been able to finger any specific woman. I know that marrying him would be a mistake, but lack the backbone to leave. I need enormous help.
I am a 44 yo retired professional that is trying to get a business off the ground. I was previously married with two kids to a wonderful man who passed away from cancer. I am currently engaged to man that I have been dating for 5 years. I know he is a cheater although I have not been able to finger any specific woman. I know that marrying him would be a mistake, but lack the backbone to leave. I need enormous help.
No big chapter to write today, just a big hug to everyone who passes through, especially all who need one. It does no cost a thing! Someone cares...
I wanted to share my response to a dear member who did not judge me. After opening my heart and life in my last entry, I asked for constructive …
I need a good support group in NC that is free or very reasonable. I do not have a lot of money right now, but need the help badly. Relationships are …
Easter Blessings to you & your family.
Have a Great Day!!
Dear backbone, I wish you the best. There are sunny days coming for you just like the spring now brings warmth and hopes of brighter days. I am trying to help my neice with MCTD to find a good Dr and people on this forum have been wonderful. I do not have MCTD/Lupus myself but I have been thru an awful auto accident and I am disabled. I had to search for an expert Neurosurgeon to help me because I had a broken neck and brain herniation from the accident/airbag hit me. I had extensive surgery in NY 1 1/2 yrs ago and I am still in physical therapy. But I am doing well as I had to learn to walk. You see I was partially paralyzed and having seizures before the surgery because the neck fracture was complicated and surgeons in my state were afraid to fix it. So I wore a hard collar for months until finding the experts in NY and they fused my head to my spine. So I cannot turn my head at all, just look straight ahead, but the feelings in my arms and legs came back almost totally. I have a little bit of numbness and a few neurological problems, but I no longer have seizures and I can walk fine. I am very grateful for being alive. So, I take one day at a time, be patient with yourself, be good to yourself and I wish you better days and happiness. Take care, AuntGin
Psssst, someone is thinking about you today! (and smiling because of you) Thank you for the invite and your thoughts. We find strength where we can. The first step is recognizing what isn't good. YAY! Check that one off the list :) Now let's see where that takes us today! Sharin' HUGGSSSSSSS Cynde
HI thanks for da hug. I went to al-anon once but I honestly have to say that it depressed me. I looked around and all I saw were older women who looked just worn down and beat down by life. I never went back. It scared me because I didn't want to look like those women. I appreciate you thinking to send me this little smiley face with hands :)
Its on my profile.