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loreleii29 
11:47am, November 2, 2009
Just talked to my granddaughter on the phone. She finally got out of juvinile hall. I just hope she has finally learned that she is only 15, has family that cares about her and decides to stop all the BS she has been pulling. I told her on the phone if she screws up again it will be GRANDMA she has to deal withfirst. My daughter is on her way, with the kid, to enroll her in school. One good thing is she is above where she would probably be schoolwise had she not been in JH. They do school there yearround and with not much else to do but schoolwork she has zoomed through different subjects. She is a very intelligent child but not a very "smart" one. I hope probation really works hard at making sure she gets the counselling she needs to work her problems out. My daughter still does not quite get it but I have understood from day 1 what the root of it all is. I just hope my granddaughter has or will admit it herself, then the wall can come down and she can work through it. I would hate to see her drag all this crap into her adult life and keep her from reaching her full potential. I am pretty sure they are mandating counselling for my daughter as well, at least parenting skills and learning to be a parent not a "friend". You can be your childs friend but you need to be the parent first and foremost. I know my daughter feels guilt from the very early years and that is what she needs to overcome, you can work on healing from the past but you need to focus on making the most of the future. I really do not know how much of her i will be able to handle. I know i agreed to do some driving to get Chelsey to appts or sessions if her momhas to be at work BUT the kid better be respectful of me or she will be riding the bus. Gotta run, someone just pulled up to the house.
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