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loreleii29 
11:47am, November 2, 2009
I GOT RID OF THE BUM SATURDAY AFTERNOON. DID NOT SEND ANY FOOD OUT EVEN THOUGH HUBBY KIND OF HINTED THAT ID O, TOLD HIM HE COULD DO IT IF HE WANTED. BILL FINALLY TOLD HIM THAT WAS THE END OF THE STAY, HOW HE APPRECIATED HIS HELP BUT THAT WE COULD NOT DEAL WITH THE BS ANYMORE FROM HIS "WHATEVER". HE CALLED HIS AUNT, WHO MANAGED TO ARRIVE WITHIN 20 MINUTES OF THE PHONE CALL SO IT IS BOGUS THAT HE HAD NOWHERE TO GO. I THINK HE JUST WANTED TO STAY AROUND IN CASE HIS BELOVED MORON LET HIM BACK IN. THEN ON SUNDAY OR MONDAY NIGHT I WAS SITTING OUT ON MY OWN FRONT PORCH ALL BY MYSELF AND THE BITCH DRIVES PAST, STOPS AND REVERSES BACK TO MY GATE. SHE GETS OUT AND WANTS TO KNOW IF TROY IS HERE AS SHE HAS HIS SHOES. I SAY NOTHING EXCEPT I DO NOT WANT TO TALK TO HER, PLEASE LEAVE. SHE KEEPS ON, OH SHE HAS HIS SHOES BLAH BLAH BLAH...I TELL HER HE IS NOT HERE, PLEASE LEAVE. THEN THE STUPID BITCH SAYS SHE WANTED TO KNOW IF SHE HAD TO HAVE HIM SERVED AT MY ADDRESS. I TOLD HER HE DID NOT LIVE WITH ME, BUT LIVED WITH HER. THAT PISSED HER OFF AND SHE LEFT. SO NEXT MORNING I CALLED THE S.O. AND HAD IT LOGGED IN. SHE DOES IT ONE MORE TIME AND SHE WILL BE THE ONE GETTING SERVED PAPERS FOR HARRASSMENT. I TOLD THE DEPUTY THAT I TALKED TO WHY SHOULD I HAVE TO FORK OVER OUR MONEY TO KEEP THIS CRAZY BITCH AWAY FROM ME. HE AGREED, I MEAN WHY SHOULD I HAVE TO PART WITH MONEY I NEED FOR LIVING? ANYWAY, SHE HAS NOT BEEN BACK BY, SHE DRIVES PAST AND DOESN'T EVEN SLOW DOWN. I THINK SHE OVERHEARD ME TELLING MY NEIGHBOR IF SHE KEEPS THIS UP I NOT ONLY WILL FILE ON HER I WILL HAVE HER SERVED AT WORK, LET HER GET HUMILIATED IN FRONT OF HER BOSS AND COWORKERS. ACTUALLY THAT WAS THE WHOLE POINT OF ME TELLING MY NEIGHBOR THAT, AFTER ALL SHE LIVES RIGHT NEXT DOOR TO HIM AND WE WERE OUTSIDE AS SHE WAS. PROBABLY SAW ME OVER THERE THRU THE WINDOW AND HAD TO GO OUT TO LISTEN, LOL, SOMETIMES I DO THINGS ON PURPOSE. ANYWAYS.....IT SEEMS OVER AND DONE WITH. I TOLD BILL LAST NIGHT I DO NOT CARE THAT HE STILL NEEDS HELP WITH A FEW THINGS, THIS TROY IS NOT COMING BACK OVER HERE. I THINK HE IS SUPPOSED TO BE ON HIS WAY DOWN SOUTH TODAY ANYWAYS. MAKES MY THANKSGIVING DAY BRIGHT.
SWITCHING GEARS NOW, HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL OF YOU. WE ARE HEADED UP TO MY SON IN LAWS FAMILYS PLACE IN THE HILLS.WEATHER IS GOOD BUT COLD AT NIGHT LIKE IT SHOULD BE FOR NOVEMBER...RIGHT JAMS? i AM JUST THANKFUL DO NOT HAVE TO COOK LOL, JUST MAKING MORE PUMPKIN CRANBERRY BREAD AND I AM GOOD TO GO, MAYBE PICK UP A BOTTLE OF WINE AND SOME SPARKLING CIDER FOR THE KIDS...ALL DEPENDS. HAD TO PAY MY CAR INSURANCE TODAY, WELL DIDN'T HAVE TO BUT POLICY EXPIRED AND MAY AS WELL PAY IT NOW AND NOT PUT IT OFF UNTIL NEXT MONTH. HAVE A GOOD TOMORROW ALL.
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I AM WRITING IN RED AS THAT IS WHAT I AM SEEING. IT HAS BEEN HIGH FREAKING DRAMA HERE ALL DAY AND LAST EVENING. ALL STARTED BECAUSE MY NEIGHBOR HAS BEEN HELPING BILL DO SOME WORK AROUND HERE. I RELALY DO NOT LIKE THE GUY MUCH BUT HE DOES WORK HARD AND I HAVE STATED IN THE BEGINNING THAT I CANNOT PAY HIM. WE HAVE BOUGHT SOME BEER AND CIGARETTES FOR HIM AND WHEN THEY TOOK A BUNCH OF STUFF TO THE SALVAGE YARD BILL GAVE HIM THE MONEY LIKE I ASKED HIM TO DO, IT WAS HARDLY ANYTHING. JUST GLAD I DIDN'T HAVE TO PAY TO GET RID OF IT. OK HERE IS WHERE IT GETS WEIRD AND DOWN RIGHT RIDICULOUS. HE COMES OVER HERE AROUND 8 O CLOCK LAST NIGHT, ASKED ME FOR A CIG AS HE CLAIMS HIS G/F AND HER DAUGHTER STOLE THEM AND HID THEM. WITHIN 3 MINUTES, I KID THEE NOT, THIS STUOID WOMAN AND HER PUNK DAUGHTER ARE AT MY GATE SCREAMING AT ME. TELLING ME THEY CANNOT HAVE TROY (THE B/F) GOING FROM NEIGHBOR TO NEIGHBOR). WHAT THE F IS UP WITH THAT. THEN THEY CLAIMED HE WAS HIGH ON DOPE, IMPLYING I WAS SUPPLYING HIM. I ASKED THEM SEVERAL TIMES TO LEAVE BUT OF COURSE THEY WERE HELL BENT ON CAUSING A SCENE SO I DID THE REASONABLE THING...CALLED THE SHERIFF. SO THEY COME, I TELL THEM THE STORY, TELL THEM IT WAS UNPROVOKED...I MEAN IT WAS MY HOUSE THEY WERE IN FRONT OF NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. I HAVE ONLY TALKED TO THIS WOMAN ONE TIME IN THE WHOLE YEAR AND A HALF SHE HAS LIVED HERE, AND ONE TIME ONLY TO THE DAUGHTER WHEN SHE TRIED TO GET ME MIXED UP IN THEIR BS. TOLD HER LEAVE ME OUT OF IT AND I WALKED AWAY. SO OF COURSE THERE IT WAS, LATE, COLD, DARK AND THE COP TOLD HIM HE NEEDS TO FIND A PLACE TO STAY FOR THE NIGHT AND TRY TO HAS THINGS OUT WITH HIS G/F THE NEX DAY. SHE GOES AROUND SAYING HE DOES NOT LIVE THERE SO HE DOES NOT HAVE A RIGHT TO BE THERE, YET EVERYONE ON THIS END OF THE STREET KNOWS HE LIVES THERE. SO MORE BS. SO HE ASKED IF HE COULD SLEP IN OUR SHED LAST NIGHT, AND BEING THE DECENT PEOPLE WE ARE WE SAID, YES. ONE NIGHT AND THAT IS IT. SO OUT COME THE EXTRA BLANKETS ETC. FASTFORWARD TO THE NEXT NIGHT, IT IS NOW A BIT AFTER 6 PM AN DHE IS STILL IN MY SHED. HE IS TOO CHICKEN SHIT TO GO OVER AND CONFRONT HIS G/F WHEN HER ITTY BITTY 18 YEAR OLD PUNK DAUGHTER IS THERE. IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO CONVENIENCE FOR THIS WOMAN. WHEN SHE HAS NO ONE TO WATCH THEIR CHILD WHILE SHE WORKS, HE DOES IT. IF THERE IS WORK TO BE DONE AROUND THERE, HE IS THERE DOING IT. I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF THIS I CANNOT STAND IT. BILL SAYS HE STILL NEEDS HELP, I TELL HIM NO FRICKING WAY. I WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO DO IT OR I WILL DO IT MYSELF. HELL, MY OWN SON WOULD COME DOWN AND DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE FINISHED IF I ASKED HIM TO. SO BILL IS OUT TALKING TO THIS GUY RIGHT NOW, TELLING HIM THIS IS THE LAST NIGHT. OF COURSE HE HAS NOT EATEN SINCE LAST NIGHT THAT I KNOW OF SO I MADE HIM A SACK LUNCH AND EVEN FRIGGEN LET HIM USE OUR LITTLE SPACE HEATER. I MEAN HOW STUPID AM I?????? i SHOULD HAVE LOADED HIM IN MY CAR AND DRIVEN HIM DOWN THE ROAD TO THE MISSION EARLY TO GET A BED AND DINNER. I FEEL LIKE A PRISONER, WE WERE SUPPOSED TO GO DOWN TO MY G-DAUGHTERS 9TH B-DAY PARTY TONIGHT BUT WE WERE AFRAID IF THE "B" SAW US BOTH LEAVE KNOWING HE IS OVER HERE SHE WOULD COME OVER AND START CRAP. I KNOW DAMNED WELL IF I WERE TO LET HIM IN THE HOUSE TO SLEEP ON THE COUCH OR SOMETHING I WOULD NEVER BE RID OF HIM. HE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT GOING DOWN TO A TOWN ABOUT 3 HOURS AWAY WHERE HE CAN STAY UNTIL THE AIR CLEARS...BUT HOW? ASK HIS MOMMA TO DRIVE HIM? I EVEN ASKED WHY COULD HE NOT STAY AT HIS MOMS, OH HE SAYS HE AND HIS UNCLE WHO LIVES THERE DO NOT GET ALONG...BIG SURPRISE RIGHT? ALL HE HAS TO DO IS ASK TO USE THE PHONE, IF FACT WHEN I TALKED TO HIM EARLIER I HAD THE PHONE OUTSIDE WITH ME AS I NEEDED TO MAKE A CALL, DID HE ASK TO USE IT? NO. NO FAULT BUT OURS FOR TRYING TO HELP SOMEONE ELSE FOR A NIGHT. I AM TIRED, DIDN'T SLEEP WELL LAST NIGHT AFTER ALL THAT CRAP. I AM HUNGRY AS I DID NOT GO SHOP, OR PICK UP TAKE OUT, OR THAW SOMETHING AND THERE ISN'T ANYTHING I CAN JUST WHIP UP. MY HUSBAND IS JUST TO NICE OR CS HIMSELF TO TELL THIS GUY IT IS TIME TO TAKE A HIKE. THIS GUY EVEN HAS ALL THESE PLANS HE WANTS TO DO FOR US. I THINK NOT. YES, IT IS NICE WHEN SOMEONE HELPS YOU DO STUFF YOU NEED HELP WITH. BUT LIVING IN MY SHED??????? I AM NOT AFRAID OF THIS GUY BUT HE DOES MAKE ME UNCOMFORTABLE AND THAT IS WHY HE DOES NOT COME INTO THE HOUSE. ALSO IF THAT WERE TO HAPPEN IT WOULD OR COULD LEAD TO HIM FILCHING MY SCRIPTS. I MEAN I DON;T HAVE ANYTHING HEAVY DUTY OR WHATEVER BUT THINGS THAT SOME PEOPLE DO ABUSE AND I AM NOT SETTING MYSELF UP FOR THAT. WHEN BILL GETS BACK IN I AM GOING TO HAVE HIM OPEN THE SAFE (I CAN NEVER REMEMEBER THE COMBO) AND I AM GOING TO PUT THEM IN THERE. BOY DO I COMPLAIN OR WHAT. BUT FIGURED ENOUGH PEOPLE MIGHT READ THIS AND GO AWWWWWW POOR LORELEI...WHAT A PUTZ SHE IS LOL I AM JUST PISSED THAT I ALLOWED MYSELF TO GET INTO THIS SITUATION, BUT MAD AT BILL FOR NOT MANNING UP AND GETTING HIM OUT OF HERE. AND I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR SOMEONE WHO IS TAKING WAY WAY ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION. IF I WERE HIM, I WOULD MARCH MY ASS OVER ACROSS THE STREET AND SAY IF YOU WANT ME GONE, EVEICT ME AND UNTIL YOU DO I AM STAYING PUT. THERE IS A MOTOR HOME THERE THAT HE CAN SLEEP IN AND EVEN THE COP SAID IF THAT IS HIS RESIDENCE HE CAN BE THERE, JUST DO IT CIVILLY. AS LONG AS THE 2 ARE IN SEPERATE AREAS WHAT THE F DOES IT MATTER TO HER ANYWAY. I MEAN SHE IS THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN LIVING WITH FOR ALL THESE YEARS, HAS A CHILD BY, IF SHE WANTS HIM GONE DO IT THE REAL WOMAN WAY...LEGALLY WITHOUT STANDING IN THE STREET IN YOUR BATHROBE SCREAMING LIKE A SHREW. I AM DONE...WHEW THAT FEELS BETTER. I NEED TO GET BILL BACK IN HERE, CHANGE CLOTHES, LOCK UP THE HOUSE AND GO GET DINNER...I NEED OUT OF HERE. TOLD BILL I WAS GOING TO MOVE IN WITH LINDSEY HEEHEE
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I feel for you! Alot of us have been in a similar situation. You have got to get rid of this guy! Maybe the reason knowone else wants him around is because he is a leach! The gf was totally out of line and I'd definently tell him he has to deal with his own problems! We all want to help others, but I've learned to only help those who are willing to get off their butts and help themselves. We've all been burned before when we tried to do the right thing, but I've learned the hard way not to be taken advatage off.I wish the best for you, let us know how it turns out.
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I sure to hope this situation is straightened out! Just remember not to feed him, nor give him any heat for the shed. Hopefully, if it's cold enough, he'll move to a warmer site.
I am pretty much like Sunni when it comes to compassion and have learned to save it for those that are really in need of it. Unfortunately, there are people like this....maybe if it was possible, it might have been better to give him a ride to a shelter.
Hope the days have been going better and that you got to do some (to me, dreaded) grocery shopping!
Take care of you!
Hugs
Joni
OK, HERE IT IS MONDAY. I TOOK THE KIDLET TO SCHOOL AT 8;15, BY 9;30 I GET A CALL SAYING SHE HAS A TEMP OF OVER A HUNDRED AND HER EYES ARE ALL GLASSY. SO I GET TO THE SCHOOL, HER HEAD FEELS FINE TO ME AND HER EYES LOOK LIKE THEY ALWAYS DO. FOR ABOUT THE FIRST 2 HOURS OF HER VYVANCE HITTING HER SYSTEM HER EYES DO HAVE A SLIGHTLY GLASSY LOOK, MORE FOCUSED IN I WOULD SAY. I DRIVE HER HOME, TAKE HER TEMPERATURE AND IT IS NORMAL. I THINK THEY NEED TO DO DO RANDOM TESTING OF THOSE THROW AWAY TEMP STRIPS THEY USE AT THE SCHOOL. OF COURSE, I CANNOT JUST DRIVE HER BACK AND SAY THEY ARE FULL OF CRAPOLA, SHE IS FINE AND WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM? SO HERE I SIT, WITH A KID THAT FEELS JUST FINE WITH A NORMAL TEMPERATURE. SHE WAS FINE WHEN SHE WENT TO SLEEP LAST NIGHT, SHE DID NOT WAKE UP ILL, SHE WAS JUST HUNKY DOREY THIS MORNING, BUT THE MINUTE SHE GETS TO SCHOOL SHE SUDDENLY BECOME SO ILL I HAVE TO GO GET HER? I UNDERATAND THEY DO NOT WANT SICK KIDS AT SCHOOL. BUT GET THIS, THE NURSES AIDE WHO CALLED ME SAID SHE HAD KIDS DROPPING LIKE FLIES YET THERE WAS NOT A SINGLE OTHER CHILD ON THE CHECK OUT SHEET FOR TODAY. DROPPING LIKE FLIES? EXCUSE ME, THAT GIVES ME A MENTAL PICTURE OF KIDS JUST DROPPING ON THE FLOOR MIDWAY TO THE DOOR TWTICHING AND CONVULSING. COULDN'T SHE HAVE JUST SAID, I HAVE HAD SEVERAL CHILDREN THAT WERE CALLED IN FROM HOME AS ILL. OR WHATEVER. LOL I SWEAR. I AM WORRIED ABOUT HER GETTING THE REGULAR FLU AS I CANNOT MANAGE TO SEEM TO FIND A VACCINE FOR HER. EVERYONE IS SO WORRIED ABOUT GETTING THE H1N1 I THINK THEY DID NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT MAKING SURE THERE WERE ENOUGH REGULAR FLU SHOTS. GRRRRRRR GOTTA CALL THE DOCTORS OFFICE OR THE HEALTH DEPARTMENT. GETTING LATE IN THE SEASON, LUCKILY THERE HAVE NOT BEEN ANY REAL OUTBREAKS OF THE REGULAR FLU THAT I HAVE HEARD OF, BUT THAT MEANS NOTHING. IT HAS NOT GOTTEN COLD ENOUGH OR STORMY ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE TO STAY INSIDE ALL DAY AND PASS GERMS AROUND. DAYS ARE STILL NICE ENOUGH FOR PEOPLE TO GO OUTSIDE AND DO THINGS, KIDS STILL OUT RIDING BIKES OR DOING WHATEVER KIDS DO OUTSIDE. WELL THAT ABOUT COVERS IT, I SUPPOSE I SHOULD GO TEN TO THE INVALID. LOL, TRANSLATE INTO PUTTING ON CARTOONS AND MAKING SURE HER CRAYONS ARE NEARBY.
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It's good to see you writing again, though, what you are writing about must have been the pits! I think the schools are being extra careful, probably overreacting somewhat, but I imagine that must have been really frustrating!
I don't think Butte County is going to get a very good supply of the H1N1 vaccine, from what I hear. A friend in San Jose said Santa Clara County just got a big batch, but we seem to be left out in the cold. Scares the bananas out of me, to be honest. I got the regular flu shot just as soon as they came out...thought I was being a little over zealous at the time, but now I'm just thankful.
Got tickets for the Norton Buffalo Memorial Concert, but now I'm afraid to go and be around all those crowds. The last thing I need is the @###@@@%%% flu....it is always for sure hospital stay for me, and I doubt that I would survive this one if I got it....sigh....
Gettin' cold at night, isn't it? Wouldn't be surprised if we had a really cold winter this year!
Well, I've typed my fingers nearly to the bone....was glad to see your journal...I check in every so often to see if you're around!
Joni
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Thanks for the support and it sounds like you need some too!I don't know how people can be so stupid and I am including myself because I always fall for her crap and let her play her game yet another time..but I am done.She doesn't get to come over here and stay all night anymore the next time she divorces him.The kids can come if I have the night off but not her..she has burned one too many damned bridges.
saige1963