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  sunflowersara (11/17/09)

  Thanks for the comment about your husband. I've been feeling all those things and it helped to know that things will get better as I get better.
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  Hokte (11/09/09)

  thank you
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  FlagonDry (11/01/09)

  Thanks for the Hug! Really needed that!
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  glad2bee (11/01/09)

  During the times when I questioned this "God thing" the most, the strangest things would happen. My sponsor would always ask me "Is it odd or is it God?".
  Stay sober and keep your eyes open darlin'. I may be late but God's always on time. Gentle hugs, Dianna
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  alicegrace (10/25/09)

  Hey there, it is alice. There are no words I can share with you that will ease the pain of what you are going through. It hurts, big time. It (your beautiful baby rejecting you for now and maybe for a very long time) is so painful...but still you have to be the parent and not the co-dependent at this time. My oldest son was a moma's boy compared to his younger brother...but guess who is the son standing by my side at this time??? It is the younger one who was a pain in the butt as a young boy but learn life lessons in a much better way the older he became. I continue to believe one day my older son will get it, but for now I have to live a life without him, almost like he has died...be the parent, set the boundaries with love, stand back and see what happens...it may take a very long time, but truly I believe in the end it will make all the difference for them in their lives...and isn't that really what we want the most for them??? Honestly, I will tell you it hurts so much many days, I loved my firstborn son so very much, I feel betrayed by someone I don't know, my Nicholas would have never behaved this way to me...it tore me apart for many years. Now I am able to put up my great walls of armour and not let it hurt me so much on a daily basis. Remember it is about them and their stuff and not you nor your stuff in life. Try also to focus on the kids you have in your life now, and yourself. She will be back one day...just trust that if you gave her a good beginning foundation of love...she will return to it one day. I promise. Alice
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  Ray of Sunshine
  

  ItsTime4747 (10/06/09)

  I hope things get better and you get your spirts back soon...
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  CityandColour (09/27/09)

  just wanted you to know how fantastic that is, i know it's hard so agin congrats :)
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  CityandColour (09/26/09)

  hey just wanted to congratulate you on almost 8 months! that's FANTASTIC! keep it up you can do it :)
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  Well Done
  

  ItsTime4747 (09/15/09)

  Love your write ups!!
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  Well Done
  

  ItsTime4747 (09/15/09)

  Wow..a great read on you first AA meeting. I am sure there are folks in those meetings that can learn from your experiences and strength and will.. Keep up the great work.

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