I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL FROM MY DAUGHTER.SHE RANG AND ASKED ME TO RING HER BACK.SHE WAS CRYING.I RANG HER BACKAND SHE WAS STILL CRYING. WE STAY IN CONTACT EVEN IF WE ONLY TEXT EACH OTHER WEEKLY.SHE HAD A FIGHT WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND HE SMACKED HER IN THE MOUTH,SHE NOW HAS THREE STITCHES IN HER MOUTH.SHE ALWAYS MAKES EXCUSES FOR THIS MAN.SHE SAID SHE PUSHED HIM FIRST.I DONT EXCEPT THAT. NO MAN HAS A RIGHT TO LAY A HAND ON A WOMEN.MY DAUGHTER LIVES FIVE HOURS AWAY.ID LOVE TO BE ABLE TO JUST HUG HER AND SAY MUMS HERE BUT .NOW THIS CHILD WAS A HEROIN ADDICT.HAS GOT HER LIFE TOGETHER.EXCEPT FOR HIM. HAS A FULL TIME JOB AS A DENTAL ASSISTANT. DID TIME IN JAIL . IS NEVER GOING BACK. SHE IS MY MIRICLE.I AM SO PROUD OF HER.SHE LIVED ON THE STREET. WAS A PROSTITUTE. TO SUPPORT HER HABIT.NOW AS I SAID SHE WORKS FULL TIME ,HAS A UNIT AND OWNS ALL HER FURNITURE. PAYS HER BILLS.AL I CAN DO IS GIVE HER MORAL SUPPORT OVER THE PHONE.HOW ID LOVE TO PUT MY ARMS AROUND HER RIGHT NOW.I KNOW HOW FAR SHE HAS COME .ONE PRICK WHO DOES NOTHING BUT PUT SHIT ON HER. I TOLD HER TO NOT LET HIM IN.TO TELL HIS PARENTS.TO PUT A RESTRAINING ORDER ON HIM. SHE SAID HE WOULD GET HIS FRIENDS TO HARASS HER. BECAUSE THERE IS A LEASE ON THIS UNIT SHE CANT MOVE.WHAT A PRICK. IF AY ONE HAS ANY IDEAS ON WHAT TO DO ABOUT THIS.PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
UPDATED GOALS
You have to get her to leave him. She has to get out before its too late. Has she ever called the police on him? If she were to have him arrested, that would give her time to get the hell out and leave him for good. She needs to do something before it truly is too late.
AshleyAnn05
I really feel for you. Don't you have enough stress? Stupid question. I was in a very abusive relationship when I was 18 and it did not matter all the advice that everyone gave me, I had to leave when I was ready to leave. I know that doesn't help you right now, but if she was strong enough to get her life back together, then she is strong enough to leave him. I suspect the lease is just an excuse to stay. When I left my abuser, we also had a lease, but I never heard anything about breaking it. I also would not have cared becuase I would have paid any amount of money to leave him. When I left, I had to move from Colorado (which I loved) back to KY. Moving that far away, I did not have to worry about any retaliation, but I still did for about a year. I doubt that you would ever do this, but the most important thing you can do for her is to be there and don't let the abuser run you off. They are famous for this, control. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
reddutchgirl
It is so hard when all we can do is sit back and no nothing. My oldest daughter was beaten by her husband and she left for a day. He threatens her that he will take the kids if she tries to leave. I know they still fight and I worry excessively about my grandchildren and her, but all I can do is pray. If she is able, she needs to leave for the safety of her child too. I ache for you Wendy...please know that you and your daughter are in my prayers.
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