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MRSWOO 
2:11am, April 8, 2009
I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL FROM MY DAUGHTER.SHE RANG AND ASKED ME TO RING HER BACK.SHE WAS CRYING.I RANG HER BACKAND SHE WAS STILL CRYING. WE STAY IN CONTACT EVEN IF WE ONLY TEXT EACH OTHER WEEKLY.SHE HAD A FIGHT WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND HE SMACKED HER IN THE MOUTH,SHE NOW HAS THREE STITCHES IN HER MOUTH.SHE ALWAYS MAKES EXCUSES FOR THIS MAN.SHE SAID SHE PUSHED HIM FIRST.I DONT EXCEPT THAT. NO MAN HAS A RIGHT TO LAY A HAND ON A WOMEN.MY DAUGHTER LIVES FIVE HOURS AWAY.ID LOVE TO BE ABLE TO JUST HUG HER AND SAY MUMS HERE BUT .NOW THIS CHILD WAS A HEROIN ADDICT.HAS GOT HER LIFE TOGETHER.EXCEPT FOR HIM. HAS A FULL TIME JOB AS A DENTAL ASSISTANT. DID TIME IN JAIL . IS NEVER GOING BACK. SHE IS MY MIRICLE.I AM SO PROUD OF HER.SHE LIVED ON THE STREET. WAS A PROSTITUTE. TO SUPPORT HER HABIT.NOW AS I SAID SHE WORKS FULL TIME ,HAS A UNIT AND OWNS ALL HER FURNITURE. PAYS HER BILLS.AL I CAN DO IS GIVE HER MORAL SUPPORT OVER THE PHONE.HOW ID LOVE TO PUT MY ARMS AROUND HER RIGHT NOW.I KNOW HOW FAR SHE HAS COME .ONE PRICK WHO DOES NOTHING BUT PUT SHIT ON HER. I TOLD HER TO NOT LET HIM IN.TO TELL HIS PARENTS.TO PUT A RESTRAINING ORDER ON HIM. SHE SAID HE WOULD GET HIS FRIENDS TO HARASS HER. BECAUSE THERE IS A LEASE ON THIS UNIT SHE CANT MOVE.WHAT A PRICK. IF AY ONE HAS ANY IDEAS ON WHAT TO DO ABOUT THIS.PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I HAD ANOTHER PHONE CALL FROM CHILD MATENICE. MY SON HAS 2 BOYS. HE HAS BEEN IN PRISON NOW FOR 2 YEARS. THEY HAVE WROTE AND RANG ME BEFORE.WHEN HE LAST GOT UT HE GOT A JOB. WHICH MEANT HE HAD TO GIVE A TAX FILE NO.. HE WAS THEN MEANT TO PAY FOR HIS BOYS 137 DOLLARS A WEEK. THE JOB DIDNT LAST BUT THE PAYMENT NEVER CHANGED. IT SO STUPID. I TELL THEM HIS ADDRESS AND HOW HE ONLY 18 DOLLARS A WEEK. I TELL THEM TO CONTACT THE JAIL.I EVEN GIVE THEM THE PHONE NUMBER. THEY SAY FOR HIM TO PUT HIS TAX IN. I EXPLAIN HE CANT JUST DUCK OUT TO SEE A TAX PERSON.I EVEN TELL THEM THEY DONT GIVE THE INMATE KEYS TO COME AND GO AS THEY PLEASE.AS IF YOU CAN GET BLOOD OUT OF A STONE.THEY ASKED ME TO CONTACT HIM. I EVEN HAVE TO EXPLAIN I JUST CANT RING HIM.I FIND IT SO STUPID THAT THEY CANT UNDERSTAND HE IS IN JAIL.HIS BIL NOW IS 15 THOUSAND DOLLARS. IT BEATS ME HOW THEY EXPECT HIM TO PAY ANY OF THAT ON 18 DOLLARS A WEEK.IVE SPOKE TO MY SON ABOUT IT AND HE SAY WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO.SO I RING THEM AGAIN.GOVERMENT CRAP.ONLY HE CAN GET HIS TAX STUFF FROM HIS EMPLOYEES BECAUSE HE IS A ADULT.SOONER OR LATER THEY WILL WORK IT OUT. AT LEAST I HOPE THEY WILL WENDY
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I can understand how this could 'do your head in'! But you're right, they'll figure it out sooner or later. Bureaucracy can only be SOOO stupid before they realise. Meanwhile you have to take care of yourself and not let this situation get to you. Good luck!
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thank but i find it all so redicilous.what do they think they can do it jail.oh! ill just pop down the road ive got stuff i've got to fix up. bloody iddiots.. its not geting to me . i just cant believe there stupidity.
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It must be very frustrating...dealing with bureaucracy of the government. I know I got bill from collection agency for my daughter's Public Defender. i wrote them and told them she was in prison and they did stop calling...but she will still have that bill hanging over her head. I have been trying to send a few dollars here and there. They don't have any problem cashing my check, but can't even send me a statement. Try not to let it get to you...you are right they cannot get blood out of a stone. Take care, love ya, sharon
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Hi
yes we have had a few issues. Our son gave us Power of Attorney over his financial matters. When he went to prison he was paying $28.35 per month. Of course it went up recently and I have still been paying the same amount.
His daughter's mum and I have been ringing and emailing CSA. We have finally decided to put in a change of income and cease payment form. I think it worked for us as both sides are doing something about it. Of course it benefits his ex-partner as she will get more money in her pension.
YEs I have sworn and cursed CSA it probably isn't an easy job but for god sake don't they record phone calls.
Janette
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IF THEY DO RECORD THE PHONE CALLS THEY MUST BE HAVING A GOOD LAUGH AT SOME OF MY COMMENTS ABOUT IT. IVE TOLD THEM HOW STUPID THEY ARE TO THINK HE CAN JUST POP IN AND SEE THEM. ALSO DONT YOU'S IDIOT KNOW WHAT THE WORD JAIL MEANS.IVE ENDED UP RINGING HIS SOLICITOR TO LET HIM SORT IT OUT.WHEN I TOLD HIM HE COULDN'T BELIEVE IT. BLOODY DUMBBOS
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Sounds a bit familier. I have one of my b/f collectors calling me...I fianlly just told them he was in prison and would be for 15-Life. They were like Oh OK....now they keep trying to call me AGAIN... what dont they ge about the whole situation??? I want so bad to just answer and tell them to stand in line... and good luck getting anything when he has no job. They are really going to be second in line anyway, maybe third, because any money he gets if they give his job back after all the cuts at the correctional facilty will go first to child support, then to back taxes, then to fines..... good luck to ya supid assses.....heres a thought...write it off cause he probably wont be released to come take care of it. It just makes my head spin that they can be so un informed! Dah, what doo they think is going to happen when some one is in prison. Do they think thy can make more licence plates to balance there assests vs liabilities? Just makes me laugh. I'm really glad we are not married at this point. Some of the gals on here think its such a good idea. Wish they would take a min to think that one out. A relationship does not have to be on paper to make it a commitment. Sorry for the typos, its 2 in Utah and I have insomnia. Been having panic attacks and can sleep, or for that matter spell!
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You have to get her to leave him. She has to get out before its too late. Has she ever called the police on him? If she were to have him arrested, that would give her time to get the hell out and leave him for good. She needs to do something before it truly is too late.
AshleyAnn05
I really feel for you. Don't you have enough stress? Stupid question. I was in a very abusive relationship when I was 18 and it did not matter all the advice that everyone gave me, I had to leave when I was ready to leave. I know that doesn't help you right now, but if she was strong enough to get her life back together, then she is strong enough to leave him. I suspect the lease is just an excuse to stay. When I left my abuser, we also had a lease, but I never heard anything about breaking it. I also would not have cared becuase I would have paid any amount of money to leave him. When I left, I had to move from Colorado (which I loved) back to KY. Moving that far away, I did not have to worry about any retaliation, but I still did for about a year. I doubt that you would ever do this, but the most important thing you can do for her is to be there and don't let the abuser run you off. They are famous for this, control. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
reddutchgirl
It is so hard when all we can do is sit back and no nothing. My oldest daughter was beaten by her husband and she left for a day. He threatens her that he will take the kids if she tries to leave. I know they still fight and I worry excessively about my grandchildren and her, but all I can do is pray. If she is able, she needs to leave for the safety of her child too. I ache for you Wendy...please know that you and your daughter are in my prayers.
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