TooLate

About Me

I'm just starting to figure out that my husband has a problem and has been blaming me all this time to take the focus off of him. I notice that everytime we get close to having an honest discussion or going to therapy, he goes on a rampage and accuses me of cheating. Also everytime I've tried to deal with my personal problems and get help for myself he has sabotaged it. He has threatened divorce almost since the begining but this time I think he will go through with it. Also he quit his job last week (on the same day I learned I was laid off at the end of this month) so we wont be able to pay rent anyway. Plus I think he is taking too much medication (lexapro and Xanax) because in the last 2 weeks he no longer talks to himself or accuses me of all kinds of awful things, he just goes around in a daze like a zombie and lays on the bed, or couch or porch with his eyes closed and doesnt respond when you talk to him. I thought it was just to hurt me but my friend is staying over and she said the same- has to say things 4-5 times before he responds. He also cancelled his doctors appointment 3 days ago. This change in behavior is scaring me and I dont know what to do.

I'm just starting to figure out that my husband has a problem and has been blaming me all this time to take the focus off of him. I notice that everytime we get close to having an honest discussion or going to therapy, he goes on a rampage and accuses me of cheating. Also everytime I've tried to deal with my personal problems and get help for myself he has sabotaged it. He has threatened divorce almost since the begining but this time I think he will go through with it. Also he quit his job last