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7:41am, March 17, 2009
Had a meeting with the hospital, the end of March and gave them alot of question that I want answers to, why David was treated the way he was, why they could not look after him, and why he had to die because if they had treated him properly he would not of died and if I had been allowed to look after him he would not have had to go all that he went through.
My adovacate Joy, rang the trust yesterday and they said I would have the respone back next week, so i'm really worried, upset and sad. Wondering what it is going to say, they had never had anyone like David, who needed aot of physical help because he was paralised, he was sectioned and I could not do a damn thing about it we were due to get married last year.
Life is so unfair, it's tearing me apart, I'm find it very hard to cope with. I do not know what will happern after, cause he was my world, and I watched what he went through and could not do anythink to help him, the doctors and nurses were just Ignoring both of us.
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Hmmmm.... I'm so sorry to hear you are grieving like this. The loss of someone you love is I'm sure really painful.
I hope you don't get mad when I say this, cause some ppl don't like you to tell them this when they are grieving, but have you tried grief counselling. I asked my brother if he needed that when he lost his son and he got really angry.
I hope you can find some happiness in other things to help you through this.
joely35
I'm so sorry for your lose. maybe you think of it as he is out of pain and in peace....sometimes thats all we can do when someone we love who dies who was suffering. I'm sure he knows you cared for him and did the best you could to help him. hugzz
purplemoon