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TonyRay 
8:36pm, June 15, 2009
Well she's home now. Things are "ok" I guess ... she seems reasonably happy to be home ... I think the trip was "fun" but maybe not "as fun" as she hoped. She actually made a comment when she called me on one of her layovers about "if we stay together ..." and actually said "I love you" on the phone but I'm not going to try to read to much into that ... I keep doing that and getting hurt.
Anyway really what she seems to be most focused on is I think she had a feud with the woman she shared a room with. I think there's some sort of female competition going on now ... something about "can you believe it she told him I smoked, he doesn't like smokers and I didn't smoke all weekend except for one time and she told him in an email I smoked. I think she's trying to make me look bad .... "
Then they were both furious because they "weren't as special as they thought because he met with another woman that they know that runs another unofficial fan club for him".
Oh and all her pictures are blurry and the one with the guy that her "friend" took was really bad. :P She said, "I think that she didn't wait until we were ready to take it because she wants him all to herself".
Anyway I am just listening and kind of laughing to myself about it and thinking the same thing "what are they in 9th grade".
I kept the kids with me all day and took care of my stuff I needed to and we had fun. Looked at a Condo and made an appointment with my doctor.
I was kind of an idiot and did go pick her up from the airport ... even though I know I shouldn't have. Funny thing is I got yelled at for being "late".
I do think she is having some sort of mental thing going on but she denies it ... thinks nothing is wrong and she doesn't have any history about mental illness. Well at least she has never went to a doctor for issues. I think she should but she won't listen to me and I don't really think I can force her to go unless she actually hurts herself or someone else.
I didn't tell her that I canceled the credit and she doesn't seem to know ... a bit nervous about telling her that. Its the right thing to do if we really are getting a divorce but I am sure she will be furious.
Anyway really what she seems to be most focused on is I think she had a feud with the woman she shared a room with. I think there's some sort of female competition going on now ... something about "can you believe it she told him I smoked, he doesn't like smokers and I didn't smoke all weekend except for one time and she told him in an email I smoked. I think she's trying to make me look bad .... "
Then they were both furious because they "weren't as special as they thought because he met with another woman that they know that runs another unofficial fan club for him".
Oh and all her pictures are blurry and the one with the guy that her "friend" took was really bad. :P She said, "I think that she didn't wait until we were ready to take it because she wants him all to herself".
Anyway I am just listening and kind of laughing to myself about it and thinking the same thing "what are they in 9th grade".
I kept the kids with me all day and took care of my stuff I needed to and we had fun. Looked at a Condo and made an appointment with my doctor.
I was kind of an idiot and did go pick her up from the airport ... even though I know I shouldn't have. Funny thing is I got yelled at for being "late".
I do think she is having some sort of mental thing going on but she denies it ... thinks nothing is wrong and she doesn't have any history about mental illness. Well at least she has never went to a doctor for issues. I think she should but she won't listen to me and I don't really think I can force her to go unless she actually hurts herself or someone else.
I didn't tell her that I canceled the credit and she doesn't seem to know ... a bit nervous about telling her that. Its the right thing to do if we really are getting a divorce but I am sure she will be furious.
Comments
Tonyray, I reality they ARENT special. This guy is out having a good time smooshing with his fans. I think having a good time with the kids and cancelling the credit are great moves. If she gets mad--WHO is paying the bill? Maybe it's time for HER to prove herself and you decide if you want to stay or get out???? Be strong--I agree with the mental thing--whether it's a life crisis or if something more is going on--you can't make people feel and think the way YOU want them to. Be strong. C
Shorty54