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TonyRay 
8:36pm, June 15, 2009
Jesus what the hell did I do to deserve this its almost surreal. She's been on the phone all day with some woman she met on the facebook fan club who claims she knows this actor my wife is obsessed with ... they are now sharing a room together and not only that but supposedly they are talking to the actor and convinced him to go out for coffee with them.
If it wasnt for the divorce and her antics I might be happy for her but its surreal ... that now she actually gets to meet the guy she obsesses about and wrote a huge sex novel about ... who she became administrator of a 600 person fan club for... who she wants to run the official fan club for.
Its insane ... she's on the phone wiht this woman for hours plotting how they are going to turn this coffee into a night out with him and more ... its like I have a 17 year old highschool girl groupie who gets to meet her favorite rockstar ...
Sure its probably unrealistic ... but so was the thought of her actually meeting him one on one ...
Plus why the hell do I have to hear and deal with this when I am fighting for her back and fighting to get her to see that our marriage is worth a second chance. This is all just feeding her midlife crisis and pulling her further and further away.
Honestly someone pinch me and wake me up from this nightmare ... its almost so insane and surreal I am laughing amongst the tears.
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I want to get out of here so badly. :(
Today shes home with all these new outfits trying them on and I keep thinking ... why didn't she care about how she looked when we were married so i said that and she said "I was never happily married to you so I didn't care what I looked like" ... I don't know ... its just nuts ... and her family is enabling her ... her mom bought her a bunch of new clothes and her cousin finished her hair ... I just don't care to see this transition of her in front of me.
I mean she looks nice and that's great but the only reason she looks nice is because she is divorcing me ... it just hurts my feelings to see all this and have her ask me my opinion like I am just her friend.
TonyRay
Wow, this sounds like a really tough situation for you and the kids. I saw your post on the board this afternoon, and came over to see your journal entries -- there is probably nothing you can do to control her behavior, you will have to just take good care of you and the kids, so sorry this is so hard on you, but it would be hard on any decent, loving person.
anne7676