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  • About Me

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    FrozenChosen

    Male, 49, Separated
    CAN
    Member since February 16

    • About Me

      Self employed, have 2 teenage kids that I am wild about, Christian, enjoy lots of music and people and relationships. Like to travel and want to do more. I am optimistic, even when things get hard. I am a romantic, love deeply, have been learning not to love blindly.

      Self employed, have 2 teenage kids that I am wild about, Christian, enjoy lots of music and people and relationships. Like to travel and want to do more. I am optimistic, even when things get hard. I am a romantic, love deeply, have been learning not to love blindly.

    • Interests

      Play the bass, have played many other instruments, enjoy music, listening or playing, enjoy the outdoors, cooking, do not remember not having a dog, enjoy karate and staying fit. Have spent a lot of time reading in the past 3-4 years. Looks like I will get to start a North American motorbike tour in the spring..

      Play the bass, have played many other instruments, enjoy music, listening or playing, enjoy the outdoors,

  • Journal

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    • Friend's List

      Mood October 31, 2009 1:32pm

      So many people have left DS in the past several months.. I went through my list and removed people I have not heard from or knew they moved on. If I …

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    • Sharing her love through music...

      Mood October 24, 2009 6:36pm

      We never know when it will be our time, so try not to grieve to long, step out and live life, touch people, let them know they are …

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    • Hug

      From woobie1214 November 13

      Love your Friday night song post. I listened to it twice!

    • Hug

      From veeachjay November 13

      Can you send some of that snow down here? I'm ready for winter!

    • Flower

      From marylouwho November 12

      I'm short on words today but...isn't it the thought that counts?

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      From startinanew November 11

      Snowmobiling..wow...still pretty decent here on the east coast..but I am sure it will hit here soon... :)

    • Little Love

      From westielover November 11

      My ear has become worse sweetie....thanks for asking! Sending love and huggies to you always. ;~) xxx

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      In August 08 my wife of 20 years decided to separate and seek divorce. We have 2 teenagers that still live at home. I decided to to become humble in the process and accept the dismantling pace of my spouse. It has been difficult to do nothing and just watch her pull out. She moved out of the house February 1 Reconcilitation is not an option. I am learning to support her through tough love. February 20 is a great day!

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful
      I have no real list on spouse. It allows me to remove most anger in the situation and remain sane.
      Leave Working / Worked
      When I travel it is easy to leave the stress behind and even conjur up fond thoughts. Usually shot down with in hours of arriving home.
      Love Working / Worked
      Struggle with this, tough love is more applicable to this experience.
      Music Somewhat Helpful
      I play and enjoy the freedom to express myself through music.
      Pets Somewhat Helpful
      Having the dog around does offer distractions from an empty home. These distractions are good.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Enjoy these sessions, and enjoy the opportunity to look in, from the mirror that is often held up. Some great insight and practical tools.
      Reading Working / Worked
      Have read many books, but too much often makes decisions harder and can make the situation too intellectual.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      Everyone seems so afraid of separated people, many withdrawl because they don't know what to do to support us.
      Talking Working / Worked
      My spouse would accuse me of way too much of this, but it helps me to explore and understand.
      Time Somewhat Helpful
      Time seems more like an enemy than a friend. I expect that changes with a year or so behind you.
    • Close Single Dads

      I have 2 kids 17 YO daughter, 18 YO son, wife has left the home and marriage. Hard for me to watch them and challenge myself at the same time. Wife has giving up on our Son. He is very angry...

    • Open Single Parenting

      FrozenChosen hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Healthy Relationships

      Twenty year marriage just separated and seeking divorce. Power an control issues..

      Treatments

      Patience Working / Worked
      Lots of prayer, patience, humbleness.
      Talking Working / Worked
      With friends and I have a Christian Counselor
      Writing Working / Worked
      Have journaled a lot in the past several years. Help me to recognize any behavior I may bring to the mix.
    • Open Codependency

      FrozenChosen hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)

      FrozenChosen hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
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