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It can happen but start again.
Find others like yourself that you can email or call for support, right when you need it.
I know it helps and I have others that know they can call me at 3am and I will help them and never be upset that they woke me up.
Your happiness to keeping to your goals is the most important thing.
Your brother in Celibacy,
Paul
Hello- just read your entry bout big mistake you just made after being celibate for long time, right? Well I don't have much to go on from that, but it sounds like you're upset with maybe u gave in to temptation and worried now. I am a good 'listener'- if you want to give me some details with your situation I might be able to give a suggestion you could use?
I am a good bit older than you, so I've got some wisdom in areas like relationships & trying to stay celibate. I am married right now but I didn't sleep with my husband til honeymoon. I know how hard it is to resist one's hormones- had VERY tuff time in my 20's! Well if you want to have a listening ear, write any time!
Hello- just read your entry bout big mistake you just made after being celibate for long time, right? Well I don't have much to go on from that, but it sounds like you're upset with maybe u gave in to temptation and worried now. I am a good 'listener'- if you want to give me some details with your situation I might be able to give a suggestion you could use?
I am a good bit older than you, so I've got some wisdom in areas like relationships & trying to stay celibate. I am married right now but I didn't sleep with my husband til honeymoon. I know how hard it is to resist one's hormones- had VERY tuff time in my 20's! Well if you want to have a listening ear, write any time!
Sexual thoughts may be "INEVITABLE" in your words or unavoidable. But as easy as they are to think of, they are just as easy to dismiss, instead of giving into them, and quite honestly the less you choose to think about it the easier it is to avoid. The only reason they are "unavoidable" is because everything in "modern" day life promotes it. Virtually every image, advertisement, tv show, movie, etc, promotes it, so it's difficult to not think of it, when it's shoved in your face 24/7, but you don't have to go along with it and let yourself give in to it.
The first step is to start to believe in yourself which gives you the courage to reach out socially and that is what the book teaches you how to do. I'm sure it will help you as much as it helped me.