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February 9, 2009 3:20pm
I had a moment last night when I looked at my wife, she was expressionless as per usual these days. All I wanted was to jump on her & hug her …
RockerJess
9:44am, February 11, 2009
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About Me
RockerJess
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About Me
I am a musician & an artist. I hold down a job in the medical field to pay bills, but my heart & soul are in music & art. Next to my art my wife is the most important thing to me. I have faith in God, it is not the strongest due to my current situation, but I am working on that as I feel I really need to for me & my wife. I feel like I am in the toughest time in my life due to my wifes depression. I guess I just need to vent & talk to some one. My wife is embarassed abou ther depression, so I can't really talk to anyone we know & all of our good friends live 3 hours away where we use to live. I feel alone in this fight!
I am a musician & an artist. I hold down a job in the medical field to pay bills, but my heart & soul are in music & art. Next to my art my wife is the most important thing to me. I have faith in God, it is not the strongest due to my current situation, but I am working on that as I feel I really need to for me & my wife. I feel like I am in the toughest time in my life due to my wifes depression. I guess I just need to vent & talk to some one. My wife is embarassed abou ther depression, so I can't
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Music, wondering in NYC, good wine & food, traveling. I love living life!
Music, wondering in NYC, good wine & food, traveling. I love living life!
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February 9, 2009 3:19pm
I had a moment last night when I looked at my wife, she was expressionless as per usual these days. All I wanted was to jump on her & hug her …
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I need help
February 6, 2009 3:39pm
My wife & I have been arguing so much, we have come close to calling it quits. I love her so much & this depression is killing me. We …
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I posted a response. You are not alone. :)
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Hang in there, remind her why she married you. Tell her to get in the car (or on your motorcycle) you have an early valentine's gift for her. There has to be a memory the two of you share that you can tap into, make her curious...also make sure she's taking her meds!
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Close Depression Supporters
Married to my wife for 6yrs together for 8. As of the past 3 months my wife has been slipping into depression. She no longer gives me affection, when I ask her how she feels she says numb, for the first 2 months it drove me crazy, fits of crying, yelling & trying to "snap" her out of it. She has sought out help Thank God! I am having a real hard time, feeling like I am loosing my best friend & lover. I need advice on how to deal with ME, I am a mess & I want to be who I need to be for HER. Help
Treatments
- Crying Working / Worked
- I have broken down so much in the past 3 months, it helps temporarily..
- Music Somewhat Helpful
- She responds well to music, most of the time it just makes me teary eyed with all of the memories attached to so many songs & I am a musician so it is tough for me...
- Patience Working / Worked
- So hard I am working on this, i was in denial & thought she would just snap out of it, but that is not the case wit this.
- Talking Working / Worked
- different every day, I feel like I have to force my self to be numb & I am a passionate person. talking is good, but also very hard
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