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mystrengthnotfade 
12:55pm Thursday
Ok my ex texts me this afternoon telling me she misses me.....this wouldn't have been surprising since she has been doing this for a while now. But then she says when I come home she wants to try to fix us and see if we can make us work.
I don't know what the hell to do..... by default I suck at all things needed in a relationship. I'm just so confused that I can hardly formulate a sentence.
I need major advice...in like all aspects... seriously!
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Hey, well I know this situation very well...I did it to my stbx and visa versa. My first question would be why does she want to get back together? THen I would think about what brought you and her to this situation you are currently in. This is a hard thing to deal with no matter what happen but, you have to see what is best for you. Being back with her will this benefit you, make your life better, make you feel good or will it drag you down. I would also consider if she is doing this because she is lonley?
If you want to see her then I would advise taking baby steps so to speak. If you want to see if things can work don't just jump right back to where you guys left off...take it extremely slow...evaluate your feelings and situation. YOu also have to take a stop back and look at the big picture and not just the moment. If you feel that this isn't a good thing then don't pursue it.
It comes down to want you want but, I hope this advise helped!!!! Hang in there and concentrate on you!!! (((HUGS)))
Strings22
Why does she? well I have no clue...and honestly I know what will happen if I try to ask her, she will freak out on me and say I'm trying to be mean. It's what she did every time I tried to have a serious conversation with her. Would it make me feel better....well it would end my loneliness so yes. Is she lonely...probably. All said tho, I think it probably is a bad idea. My friend says I should make a clean break that she is bad news for me. I don't know......
mystrengthnotfade
I agree with your friend especially if she can not face a serious conversation. It just doesn't sound right; not healthy to be in that type of relationship. If she can not deal with a serious conversation with you then she is not relationship material for you. I know this stuff is hard to deal with and emotionally draining but, you can get through this. Hang in there!!!
Strings22