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9:03am, May 20, 2009
CANDLE LIGHTING ON NOVEMBER 8
Tomorrow is the second Sunday of the month - our candle lighting day. An explanation is in order for all the moms who have joined us so recently.
At noon, whatever time zone you are in, please light a candle for your son or daughter. Most of us put our candles near a favorite photograph we have of them; some put a little bouquet of flowers. The 'accessories' are not what is important. What we are striving towards is peace - focus on quiet, happy memories of your time together. Think about the probability that wherever 'the kids' are now, they are truly alive and happy in ways we can't begin to understand. If you find yourself getting tense and upset, close your eyes and do your childbirth breathing: deep cleansing breath in, blow it out while blowing out the tension; slow breaths in breathing in peace and slow breaths out letting out stress. Remind yourself that you are not alone and that there are other women in this world who are lighting their candles right beside you.
LEO'S PLAYGROUND
The Shed, owned by Jennie and Darrin Jasgur (LeosMommy and LeosDaddy), will soon be opening in Mobile, Alabama. For those who don't know, a playspace in memory of Leo will be created around a 200 year old oak tree. Folklore says that when a bell rings, an angel is getting their wings. In that light, Jennie and Darrin will be hanging bells high in the tree so that as the children play below, they will hear the bells ringing when the wind blows.
If you would like to send a bell, please contact our Jennie (LeosMommy). She will give you the mailing address. Be sure that you choose a sturdy bell, one that can withstand outdoor conditions. Your child's name or whatever you like should be engraved or written on the bell. What a beautiful tribute to our kids!
MONTHLY DATES
Birthdates and angel dates will be posted on the group page each month. If we don't have yours listed, or if we've made a mistake, please send a message. We are working on getting the 'Mommys' page updated so please be patient.
Comments
As always thank you for all you do in keeping us informed. I will be thinking and praying for my sisters of the heart as I light my candle for Doug tomorrow. The idea too of the bells is such a special tribute. XO Joanie
Livingjuicy
thanks so very much 4 explaination & reminder. i work 10 hrs 2morrow, but will take a candle with me & ask if i may light it 4 Zaiden & all r children & grandchildren. u r a very giving, positive, & encouraging person. blessings, hugs, & lol. bess
Bess2
I am new to the group. My Evan's birthday is this November 27. He would be 30 years old if he were still on this earthly plane. His angel date is May 10, 2008.
evansmamamia
I love you my friend thank you for the update...
munrogirl
Thank you, I light my candles every nite for my Sean...But to know that all will be lighting at the same time warms my heart..
The 'bells' what a wonderful idea...God Bless you all
obonnonb
I am in awe of the community here, and all that you do to keep the flame of hope and sisterhood burning. My heart breaks for all of the moms that have lost a child, it is a sorrow that has no definition.
love and light, Rebecca
rcoco
My candle is lit.
RememberKala
Thank you for letting me know about this special event. I will mark my calendar for every second Sunday at noon and will soon be thinking of you all, as well as of my Jason in happy times. XO Sharon
momjmc
I lite the candles and prayed hard for us all. Love and hugs Cathy
RockstarsMom