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sarahelizabeth117 
5:24pm, May 9, 2009
Yesturday my boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up. I was putting 150% into the relationship and he was puttin 20%. i fnally brke down and told hi how i was feeling ad that it wasnt right that he was pushing me away, and that i only got to to see him once a week for 2 hours, his expliantion was that it was getting harder for him to balance his time between cayden ( his son), work, school, and me ... oh my gosh he put me last!!!! so basically that made it a little easier for me to tell him im done. but it hurts sooooo much .
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im soooo sorry. thats hard. but you needed to break away from him. it didnt seem healthy. it hurts. i bet. but know that out there is some guy who will put in 150% into the relationship. just like you.
ABrow
I'm so sorry to hear this, and I hope you're feeling a little better.
Don't forget to cry, shout, scream, rant and rave all you need...a relationship break-up is a little like grieving, there's no right or wrong way to feel, so express yourself any way you feel you need to.
After a particularly acrimonious break-up with (in hindsight) a worthless piece of S*** I used to find stuff racing around my head, keeping me up at night. It really helped me to get stuff down in writing. Once I had filled the notebook with my rollercoaster of emotions I burnt it on a bonfire, almost ceremonially, it helped me to draw a line under it all and move on. Best of luck, and stay strong.
clk74