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About Me
spencersmom
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About Me
I'm 57 years old, married (my second husband), with two children, Lydia (28) and Spencer, my angel, who would have been 22 yesterday, April 18th. Spencer passed from this earth October 16, 2008. He was the most creative, funny, exuberant and effervescent person I ever knew and I miss him every minute of every day.......Lucky to be their Mom!
I'm 57 years old, married (my second husband), with two children, Lydia (28) and Spencer, my angel, who would have been 22 yesterday, April 18th. Spencer passed from this earth October 16, 2008. He was the most creative, funny, exuberant and effervescent person I ever knew and I miss him every minute of every day.......Lucky to be their Mom!
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Interests
Playing piano, dancing, writing, reading, drawing, gardeneing, cooking, poetry, movies, walking, tennis, swimming. Love being in nature more than anything, especially the woods, but also love cities, art museums, cathedrals, concerts, plays.
Playing piano, dancing, writing, reading, drawing, gardeneing, cooking, poetry, movies, walking, tennis,
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Recent Activity
November 14
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spencersmom and Soosanah are now friends 8:35am
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spencersmom and RememberKala are now friends 8:35am
October 6
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spencersmom turned 58 12:00am
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Hugbook
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Sorry
I'm sorry yesterday was such a hard day for you, but am glad you found some helpful comments here. I've been to a CF meeting, but understand they can be helpful. I knew I needed more than a once a month meeting, and I liked the idea of being able to sit at my computer at 2am in my pj's and pour my heart out. The sun is shining here and I've been outside walking with my two yorkies. Being in the sunshine always seems to make me happy.
Hug
Sorry for your loss, Big Hugs, Elly
Prayer
sending a prayer for God's grace your way. Thank you for your words of kindness. Julie
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Hug
I notice too that you haven't journaled....it really does help. I encourage you to give it a try. I hope today is easy on your heart.
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Rainbow
Please accept my belated thoughts for Spencer's 1st anniversary date. I'm sorry I've missed being your friend for these many months. I apologize for not finding you sooner. I hope we can be friends. Hugs, Teri.
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Support Groups
Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a ChildMy 21-yr-old son Spencer died Oct. 16, 2008. I miss him every minute of every day. He was the funniest, most brilliant person I every knew! Always cracked me up!
Treatments
- Crying Working / Worked
- Crying hurts and feels good simultaneously.
- Grief Counseling Considering
- Keeping Busy Somewhat Helpful
- I am a therapist and sometimes I feel good that I'm able to help others; sometimes I resent their petty problems.
- Pets Working / Worked
- My son's cat has undergone a personality transformation. Can't get him out of my lap! His purring soothes me.
- Prayer Working / Worked
- I probably don't pray as much as I used to because I am angry with God. But I do pray and it does help me.
- Reading Working / Worked
- Reading everything on grief and on the afterlife and communications from the "other side". It all helps!
- Scrapbooking Considering
- Too soon to get that organized, but did make a DVD with music, which is wonderful!!
- Support Groups Somewhat Helpful
- Have only been to 3 meetings of TCF.
- Time Not Working
- Time alone solves nothing.......
- Helping Others Working / Worked
- Reaching out to others I know who are grieving. Babysitting helps.
