I find myself a single mother of a 15 year old son and 17 year old daughter. Both high school students. Husband left me for another woman and I am heartbroken. The situation is very close to home and her children go to school with our son and they play sports together. Our children will not spend time with their father and he will not support us in any way. Not even what is court ordered. We were in a long term marriage. Just feel alone, scared and starting over completely at 50. Needed to reach out to find help and found this website as I never needed or asked for help before. Don't know if I have come to the right place or not.
I find myself a single mother of a 15 year old son and 17 year old daughter. Both high school students. Husband left me for another woman and I am heartbroken. The situation is very close to home and her children go to school with our son and they play sports together. Our children will not spend time with their father and he will not support us in any way. Not even what is court ordered. We were in a long term marriage. Just feel alone, scared and starting over completely at 50. Needed to reach
Friends, Family, Having both Friends and Family over, Enjoy having the children's friends around, Reading, Cooking, The Beach, My Dogs, Getting to know things about the Church and Bible More, I love to laugh and laugh so much where sometimes it hurts and you can't stop, I love to chat with my friends, I have forgotten alot of the things I like to do, and I don't do alot of those I used to like. It is a whole new world now. Will do alot more.
Friends, Family, Having both Friends and Family over, Enjoy having the children's friends around, Reading,
3 hugs received, 2 hugs given, 1 journal comment
sunshine5 gave solongbye a hug 12:13am
Thanks so much. Hope yours was good. I really do not like holidays anymore, do you? Would love to catch…
sunshine5 gave nancyneds a hug 9:35pm
Thanks for the hug, can always use many of those. Holidays are still so different, hope by next year…
sunshine5 turned 51 12:00am
May 21, 2009 9:28pm
I worked today! It was so exciting. I worked with a friend cleaning a really dirty rental unit but it was work. Now who gets …
February 18, 2009 10:17am
Just thinking as I set in here to find something to through on to drop off books and lunches at school. High school this is!!
I still have …
February 17, 2009 9:35am
Today as I pack boxes with them all going to storage except the necessities I am remembering the man I really married! He is excuse me an …
February 9, 2009 6:42pm
Can't we just not do this for a while? I don't want to be the mother, the ex wife, the daughter.
I just want to be nothing. …
Hoping that you had a nice Holiday and that you're doing well. Take care of yourself.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Passing by with a hug...
I know it's scary when you are financially on your own, scary and pissy. I spend so much time fretting about it, we both just want life to be fair and it obviously isn't. Vent to me, I can appreciate it and enjoy the really good vents with the cuss words.
I will never be nice, he doesn't deserve it.
You have a happy face but you don't write in your journals anymore. How am I supposed to know what's going on?;) So are you too busy dating young men to be here? Please tell me yes.
All I ever wanted in life was to be that stay at home mother and wife and was so fortunate to be able to do so. I went to college but never finished. Worked and then after I married and had our first child I was able to stay at home with the help of my parents. They believed in giving inheritance before they died. It was great. Our marriage was by no means perfect but we had a great life. He left. It has been a nightmare ever since. I truly did not know things really happened this way.
