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  • About Me

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    GlorS

    Female, 63
    Somerset, NJ, USA
    Member since January 19

    • About Me

      Extremely concerned wife of wonderful man who recently had surgery for RCC. Very fearful and worried and wanting to be hopeful and supportive for him. Need to know there are others who have SURVIVED this and others who can share experiences and tips and mostly HOPE.

      Extremely concerned wife of wonderful man who recently had surgery for RCC. Very fearful and worried and wanting to be hopeful and supportive for him. Need to know there are others who have SURVIVED this and others who can share experiences and tips and mostly HOPE.

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    • 1 hug received, 1 hug given

    Friday

    • GlorS gave TnYank superhero status 6:08pm

      Just a brief note to tell you how much I admire you. You have great courage and wisdom to spare. I could…  

    October 25

    • GlorS gave Totoswife an I'm with you 11:24am

      Hello there......... Here is a fist bump/high five of support from one wife to another. Hang in there…  
    • GlorS gave msgrace a prayer 11:20am

      Good morning Just a quick hello and a prayer of support and solidarity to you. Hope you guys are doing…  

    February 19

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    • Chocolate

      From LSMS November 2

      Gloria, a bit of pretend chocolate for you...the only good thing about a picture is that there are no calories!

      I wanted to add that the side effects Tommy currently has most likely will change if he should ever have to try a different treatment in the future. My husband's primary side effects with Nexavar is complete baldness (eyebrows and all), high blood pressure and blisters on his feet. Other drugs did other things, he'd have so much hair with one drug, I had to trim his eyelashes because they grew so long they'd bump into his glasses! With some drugs my husband got terrible diarrhea, heart burn, or blisters in his mouth. Interestingly, the 2nd round on Nexavar is less invasive to his body. So, with the exception of the baldness, he is really looking good and feeling better than he has in a long time. So, it is possible to get a break from the suffering and still do well with the treatments.

      Enjoy the calorie free chocolate I'm sending you and know that I am thinking of you and hoping that you will feel better very soon. You've been through a lot lately with the wedding and all. Your coping reserve may be a bit low and so it is time for you to recharge yourself. Too bad we didn't discover that we both live in the same place. We could have a caretaker's day off to pamper ourselves.

      Do take care of yourself Gloria.
      Linda

      So try not to worry about Tommy just getting worse side effects. He will have bad days. If he is having too much trouble, you may want to talk to the doctor about other kinds of supportive treatments such as massage or acupuncture. My husband did massage, therapeutic yoga, and some heat treatments that I can't recall the name of. These things helped.

    • Thanks

      From msgrace October 25

      Hello Gloria,

      Thanks so much for writing. I have been missing you. How are things going?

      Thankfully, Ray is still feeling pretty well. He isn't on any RCC drugs, since the Sutent almost killed him last July. We are so very grateful that the lung tumors haven't grown. He'll have another CTscan on November 24th, which will be a very stressful appointment....as you well know. Each good day is a blessing.

      Love, Ingrid

    • Superhero Status

      From LSMS October 2

      This is a symbolic note to you saying that I think you are doing a tremendous job Gloria. If you can hold down a job or two?....care for and support your husband and other family members...and help your daughter have a wonderful wedding memory, you are some Superhero! Don't worry about anything not be "good enough"....just getting through everything is more than good enough it is outstanding!

      Love,
      Linda

    • Flower

      From Beccaanne September 27

      Hi Gloria,
      How is everything going ?? Just wanted to send you 2 a happy hello, i was thinking about you and Tommy today, i hope all is well, Tim is doing better, and so am i, i hope you had a enjoyable Sunday... It's raw & rainy here tonight, so Tim and i spent a nice indoor cozy day, i hope to hear from you soon !!
      Becca

    • Hug

      From Totoswife September 18

      Just thought I would send you a hug. I was wondering how your husband is doing? God Bless you!

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Renal Cell Carcinoma (Kidney Cancer)

      Treatments

      Nephrectomy Working / Worked
      Husband had 5.5 cm clear cell tumor removed with left kidney 9/18/08. Laparascopic surgery went well. No other involvement. Stage 1b pathology. We were ecstatic and optimistic. Three month check up revealed several lung nodules ranging from less than 5mm to 1.5 cm. We are flaggergasted. Needle biopsy to be scheduled. Then I guess they will recommend treatment options. I want to go to Sloan Kettering for opinion. Can anyone relate to this situation?
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