Trying to figure it out
April 6, 2009 1:39pm
Saturday I went to watch my granddaughter play softball. Something I do every Saturday. I was at the dugout talking to her (holding my 8 month …
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beatlefan
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About Me
My husband of 30 years ran off with the secretary. We have been divorced since 2007 and I am still not totally over it but I am much better than I was. 4 grown children 2 boys, 2 girls. 9 grandchildren.
My husband of 30 years ran off with the secretary. We have been divorced since 2007 and I am still not totally over it but I am much better than I was. 4 grown children 2 boys, 2 girls. 9 grandchildren.
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Enjoy reading, working, my kids and grandkids, and music.
Enjoy reading, working, my kids and grandkids, and music.
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good days bad days
January 17, 2009 2:13pm
Today is a good day. I am feeling confident and happy. Yesterday was a bad day. Cried a lot. I wonder why that is? So many emotions running through …
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Thank you for your comment on my journal. You're right, he shocked the hell out of everyone. My children found out he was having an affair with a neighbor about a month later. I suspected but the kids got into his email. I then got into his email. Is your ex involved with your children? How do they treat the secretary? Hugs.
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Just wanted to give you a great big hug.
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Thanks for the hug! It felt good! No...I'm not upset. Writing that reply DID take me back though! Wooooo - what a ride that was. That's the past. And, I DID feel every thing I thought was right to do - hurt me in the end. I would do a lot of things differently now - that's for certain. Big hugs right back at you. You doing okay? I hope you are. Drop me a line when you can or need to - k?
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I am feeling better and I am not missing that house, it was doing all the work in there to get it ready that did me in. Right now, I am feeling better after a week of very bad ups and downs. I am glad you got it out of your system, that does make you feel better! HUGS!!!
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I’m With You
Thank you for commenting, I know it is hard but I never realized just how much it takes out of you. Hugs
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Close Infidelity
I was married for 30 years to what I thought was a wonderful man. However he became everyman. He became the president of an oil company, first day of work he met the secretary. She was married to her third husband at the time. I believe she played him and he fell for it. He never in 30 years told me he was unhappy. He dropped me like yesterdays news, and I am (2 years later) still angry, heartbroken and not over it. I need help in moving on.
Treatments
- Divorce Working / Worked
- he filed for divorce.
