the 1st year is over....
Yesterday was actually a nice day. I didnt wanna sit at home and cry all day so i had a mass in Avery Graces honor then we went out to …
My name is Elizabeth and I am married to a wonderful man named Michael. I work on the ICU of a local hospital and my husband is a police officer for the city we live in. Our daughter Avery was stillborn on Nov 13th, 2008. I was 28 weeks pregnant. She was beautiful and perfect and the doctors still do not have any answers for us. She was our first baby and we miss her and think about her every minute of every day.
My name is Elizabeth and I am married to a wonderful man named Michael. I work on the ICU of a local hospital and my husband is a police officer for the city we live in. Our daughter Avery was stillborn on Nov 13th, 2008. I was 28 weeks pregnant. She was beautiful and perfect and the doctors still do not have any answers for us. She was our first baby and we miss her and think about her every minute of every day.
Yesterday was actually a nice day. I didnt wanna sit at home and cry all day so i had a mass in Avery Graces honor then we went out to …
In 10 days it will be one year ago... One year ago I had you in my belly. One year ago i gave birth to you. One year ago was the worst day of my …
Its been a while since i have been on here and im sorry to all of my friends for not being here for you. My husband and i are on our 3rd month ttc …
Im sorry if this comes off wrong or if I hurt anybodys feelings. Im just so pissed. I havent been on this site in a few weeks because it seems like …
So i have been having this pain around my pelvic area and I didnt ovulate this month so i decided to go to my doctor to see if there was something …
The year of the firsts are over for you.....the pain doesn't go away...well at least not at the second year...but there does come a point to where it becomes something that is just a part of you and you accept it....this year, holidays are still hard....not as intense as the firsts though HUGS
Oh Hi! I have been wondering about you so much and I am so glad that you popped in to say hi! I am so happy for you that you and your hubby are TTC again. I hope that you get some good news soon. I can't believe its been almost a year for both of us. What a journey. I will be thinking of you and sending you and Avery all of my love. xo allison
I was @ the APFD open house today...just did not have it in me to do the walk in Taylor...plus it was too rainy ugh
I saw the dates, my Nick died at Wyandotte Hospital and sorry, but hell will freeze over before I set foot in there again...just can't do it. They were really ass-holey about getting me his plaster casts they made after he died, I had to chase them down to get them and they were getting pissy because I called every day for like a month. I can drive by the hospital but eh I drive to Dearborn or Trenton for the ER. I can tell you one thing about your firt year...once you pass that angel day, things are still hard but the load does lighten a little bit....you got past the firsts, you are still here....the second year sucks too, but it is not as rough....my hubby is a Dep, so I also understand wht the job does to our guys in relation to grief too...I hate how they can desensitize (sp?) sometimes...ugh! Today I got the green light to do a Bowling for Babies for the March of Dimes, it'll be here in Wyandotte in the Spring...you are welcome to help!!! I am so nervous about it.
So has the support systems been non-existent for you too? Th only support I know of is @ HF Wyan Hosp...and we've already touched on that lol!!!!! There are a few of us here local, I'd like to get something going ya know? Not at a hospital....just a group of angel mommies...but it has not been picking up....I try to think if I build it they will come.....so far, not really....Nick was the 68th baby to die suddenly in WC in 2007....SO....there are many other angel mommies out there. If you ever want to chat more....let me know! HUGS!
Sending you love, I'm in Wyandotte
My name is Elizabeth and my daughter Avery Grace was stillborn Nov 13th,2008 at 28 weeks. My husband and I are devestated. We think about her every minute of every day. I really need some support or someone to talk to that has been through this and knows what we are going through. It seems like my depression has gotten worse the closer it gets to her due date (Feb 3rd,2009). Anybody out there that has any advice? My family has been great but nobody knows what to say.