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nicoleacola32 
6:59pm, September 3, 2009
I said goodbye to a good friend today.A friend who is not able to be my friend anymore. A friend who was very good to me and I was very good too but something is lost and this person is not able to be my friend anymore.Maybe in the future things will change,I feel so lost and scared right now and because I have mutual friends who know this person where I attend at my clubhouse I can't talk to anyone at my club and get support that I need because this friend asked me as a final request not to say anything.I feel so alone and so scared who do I talk to? Help!! I don't know where to turn I'm just working on getting well and recovering and now I'm dealing with this i need support.
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I understand...I am having a hard time with my feelings too. Maybe your friends request is not doable for you...if you need to be able to talk to your friends there.
toria53
I said goodbye to a friend today as well. It can be tough, especially when you can't talk about it. Are you in therapy? Maybe you could talk to your therapist. The pain will ease up as the days pass by. You will be ok just as I will.
Ele1
I'm sorry to hear that happened. I had to say goodbye to someone I loved very much a few months ago, and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. It didn't seem like the pain would ever go away, but it does, slowly but surely.
chimera809xx
This is exactly what I am talking about in my journal I wrote today only my journal is way too long and you said it must shorter which is good. It is so hard to know if you make the right decision in letting a person go. In many ways it is very hard to let people you know go. I will miss them and be sad and then question myself was I wrong, etc. and in some cases I am very wrong and that is when I am very regrettful. All I can say is you are not alone with these feelings, these feelings are tough and it would be nice when people can forgive you for your mistakes, we can learrn from our mistakes because we are not perfect, we make the wrong decisions, hopefully the person will forgive us but then again maybe we were right, maybe the person really did not like us and in that case it was best to leave the relationship. Sometimes you never know, sometimes you have to go with your gut but sometimes your gut is not always right and then we have a loss. All we can do is do our best and learn from each situation we are in.
fragileteacup
Losing anyone can be a painful journey, especially when it's left open to the future. I'm with you in spirit. I have lost many friends over the years. Hang in there. Writing letters that we don't mail is one outlet for your grief another is to talk about on DS and maybe find a group specific to your needs and pray. When one door in our lives closes usually another one is opened. Empathy and Prayers. Love, Cathy Anne
Cathyanne
It's tough to end relationships, even if they cause us pain. My thoughts are with you xxx
Blueglitter
Hello - I understand that it hurts to lose a friend and my heart goes out to you. If you ever need to talk, just e-mail me. I am here for you.
Trish
Plee2009
yep friend come and go but you always have me as one
cramsession
Thank you that means alot.You are very special rosalee
nicoleacola32
thank u u r too
cramsession
I am so sorry for your loss. Relationships can be tough and even harder when they end. Know that we are all here for you.
neketah