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Female, 64, Houston, TX
"go see my pictures and read my journal to get to know me better"
2:35am, August 31, 2009
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Saturday, September 5, 2009

This was a post I posted in a group here on DS I will not give the name of the group . Not only was this post removed but I  was also removed as a member. 

I DO NOT UNDERSTAND SOME PEOPLE .   

 

I am not sure how to approach this subject or rather these subjects. However, I am going to try to express my ideas, feelings, and thoughts on few subjects. It is not just one subject so I do not know what to call it. I will call it discussions. I hope to make everyone feel at ease. I do not want or mean to hurt anyone’s feeling or make them feel uncomfortable in any way on this discussion or any other I may post.. We are all human and we all make mistakes. We often, not meaning to, cause hurt feelings. Many times on DS I have posted many posts on different subjects in may groups. Some are my own thoughts, my own advice or my own experiences. Other times I have posted some other persons view, advice, thoughts or experiences on subjects that I agree with in general. I post these topics for discussion. Since each post it is called a discussion, there is a place for each person who feels a need to comment, to post a comment. I welcome your comments. But please do not get your feeling hurt if I or anyone else does not agree with you. As an example: Do not get upset if I do not think pizza is good for you. You are welcome to try to convince me that it is. You may think I am an idiot, but do not say that to me. I promise I will not say that to you. Just because I or some one else disagrees does not mean we are attacking you. I know it is very hard for people not to get upset when others are not excepting their ideas or ways of doing things. When we as humans, think we are right, it is common for us to get angry when others do not agree. I like discussions. I do not like a debate that turn in to an intense argument. I see no reason for that to happen on DS. I think we should be able to carry on a friendly discussion and hear pros and cons on many subjects with out getting our feeling hurt or thinking people are attacking us and with out getting so angry and so upset that we leave the group. I am the first person to admit I am not always right. I am often called bullheaded by my boy friend, to which I respond to him with, “I am not bull headed my ways are just better.” LOL I give each of you in this group or any other group the right to disagree with me on any subject. It will not hurt my feeling and I will not get angry with you. I might get a little frustrated but not angry. You have your opinion and I have mine. I hope I have not hurt anyone feelings or made them uncomfortable in any way by disagreeing with them. I do not mean to start an argument. But I did mean to start a discussion. Please except my apologies if I have hurt or ever do hurt your feeling. Let us all come together as adult women and try to have friendly discussions from now on. We need each other for love and support. We have enough hurt and pain in out lives. Let us try not to hurt feeling and try not to let our feeling get hurt. Please feel free to make a comment below.

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Comments

  1. ddeadred

    Darling, I don't get what was so disagreeable about this post! Sometimes things on DS seem surreal...

    You seem to have a good and fair head on your shoulders! xoxoxo Cj


    ddeadred

  2. Lesa

    Hey my friend. Just to thank you for all you do for our group. Not sure what happened here. Things are surreal on DS sometimes. I don't like the negativity and drama. That's why I started our group after seeing so much fighting in the main groups. Just know that many of us think the world of you and appreciate what you bring to the table. Hugs...Lesa


    Lesa

  3. shootingstar

    I agree with ddeadred and Lesa. You have been a really fun member of the group. Please know that you didnt do anything wrong ... it was just read by the wrong eyes. I hope you know how much I appreciate your post in friends ... and you wont have to worry about drama there.


    shootingstar

  4. carolmj

    Yep, you are now in a group of ADULTS who can appreciate diversity without the need to resort to victim mentality when they hear a view that is not a carbon copy of their own! This is how adults relate in a group, but in the sandbox it is a tiresome battle for dominance.


    carolmj

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