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  invisible65 (11/14/09)

  Thanx, SJF. I'm trying really hard not to judge these feelings as right or wrong and just feel my way to what's honest for me. Your support and understanding helps a lot :)
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  mselliot (05/31/09)

  I know we're on opposite ends with the infidelity issues, but want you to know I'm trying to understand both sides. If you want to talk more I'm willing.
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  shamedforever (05/31/09)

  I was OW too , read my posts in Infidelity if you want , may be helpful, teh responses I got were amazing , also I have a member group started for people who were or are involved with MM , accept my friend invite here and I can send you an invite for that group. I want to help , I feel your pain , and since I was in same boat , maybe I can help you with Ending , its hard...have a link you will find helpful too I think , great site for ending affairs , dont beat yourself up , it gets better ...
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  RockNMetalChic (02/24/09)

  read ur reply in cheaters anonymous, made me think of me and my situation- so wanted to say anytime u need to vent or just to chat with someone who's been there and knows what ur going through- u can write me or message me anytime. much luv and big hugs and know ur not alone and u will make it through this !
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  BAB09 (02/22/09)

  Thanks for your inciteful response. I looked at your profile, I have a neighbor who's also a good friend and discovered she has MS about 2 yrs ago. She has a remarkably good attitude even though I can tell she struggles. Your comments about sons swearing reminded me that I cannot allow it to get me angry (I always do). When he gets out of treatment facility next week, I suppose I will ignore the swearing?? Or should I address it right away and let him know that it is not acceptable?? I flip flop on this, my gut tells me to address it, but that hasn't gotten me anywhere yet. We also have 2 daughters (12 and 13) who have witnessed all his bad deeds. I haven't been able to get him to stop for his sisters' sake either. I will try to have an open heart and see if that works. Again, thanks, and good luck.
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  MikeTheBike (01/18/09)
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  MikeTheBike (01/15/09)

  Hi, I am just going round this group, hugging people who've posted about struggling with food - I am right in it right now, I binged last night, and right now I feel like I'm right at my wit's end. I just can't stop. I hope that something changes for me, because I'm being honest. I want this to work and I hope it works for you too :o)
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  flip12flop (01/08/09)

  Thanks so much for your message about my dad.I never thought to have someone fill in for the aide from time to time, but he does have a friend who has filled in for him in the past. I will have a talk with the aide. Yes, he is too timid, and being part of any meeting at the assisted facility along with the nurse(s) and/or doctor is an excellent idea which I will present to the administrator. I know how stubborn my parents can be and how he can't fight with them, because I am in the same situation. I simply will not fight with either of them anymore.