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About Me
SJF1974
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About Me
I am a single parent of a teenage son, and an administrator of an assisted living community.
I am a single parent of a teenage son, and an administrator of an assisted living community.
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Recent Activity
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1 hug given, 1 journal post
Saturday
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SJF1974 gave Notpureevil a hug 11:50pm
I read your post- well, the first half of it, it was kind of long. :) I felt like you were talking about…
Tuesday
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Thanx, SJF. I'm trying really hard not to judge these feelings as right or wrong and just feel my way to what's honest for me. Your support and understanding helps a lot :)
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I know we're on opposite ends with the infidelity issues, but want you to know I'm trying to understand both sides. If you want to talk more I'm willing.
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I was OW too , read my posts in Infidelity if you want , may be helpful, teh responses I got were amazing , also I have a member group started for people who were or are involved with MM , accept my friend invite here and I can send you an invite for that group. I want to help , I feel your pain , and since I was in same boat , maybe I can help you with Ending , its hard...have a link you will find helpful too I think , great site for ending affairs , dont beat yourself up , it gets better ...
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read ur reply in cheaters anonymous, made me think of me and my situation- so wanted to say anytime u need to vent or just to chat with someone who's been there and knows what ur going through- u can write me or message me anytime. much luv and big hugs and know ur not alone and u will make it through this !
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Thanks for your inciteful response. I looked at your profile, I have a neighbor who's also a good friend and discovered she has MS about 2 yrs ago. She has a remarkably good attitude even though I can tell she struggles. Your comments about sons swearing reminded me that I cannot allow it to get me angry (I always do). When he gets out of treatment facility next week, I suppose I will ignore the swearing?? Or should I address it right away and let him know that it is not acceptable?? I flip flop on this, my gut tells me to address it, but that hasn't gotten me anywhere yet. We also have 2 daughters (12 and 13) who have witnessed all his bad deeds. I haven't been able to get him to stop for his sisters' sake either. I will try to have an open heart and see if that works. Again, thanks, and good luck.
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Support Groups
Close Physical & Emotional Abuse
Treatments
- Leave Not Working
- I left the emotional/psychological abuse but it hasn't left me.
- Psychotherapy Not Working
- I don't talk about it.
- Talking Too Soon to Tell
- I'm going to try talking to my friend about it- I recently reconnected with my old BFF and she has been through more abuse than I have and came out great on the other side and I'm going to confide in her and ask her advice and for some insight.
Close Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
Type: Relapsing-remitting MSI was diagnosed at the age of 28, nearly 6 years ago. I take avonex injections and meds to assist with the symptoms.
Treatments
Open Food Addiction
I'm not sure if I have an addiction to food, but I think I use it as a way to keep myself fat to protect me.
Open Caring For Aging Parents
I am an administrator of an assisted living community.
Open Pregnancy - Teens
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I'm an OW.
Open Obesity
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