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Kazfar 
11:35pm, October 1, 2009
I was looking forward to hubby coming home on Monday. We've missed him so much! He was going to have a rest day on Tuesday and then start a small job for the rest of the week to bring in some extra cash. But the hot water system blew up on Tuesday morning and so he had to organise the replacement and installation of the new one. He was just so tired and grumpy last night, I understand that, but he took it all out on me and nothing pleased him! He was still snappy this morning and I imagine this will continue until he goes back to work next Monday. Selfishly, I want him to cheer up and not ruin the short amount of time we've got left...
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Funny how others moods impact us, or how we LET them impact us. We're all entitled to bad days. Do you tell him how his bad moods make you feel? May be a thought. xo
Rusters
I understand completely.
Marah
Beem there...hopefully things were be back to normal or better when he goes back to work. Be patient ... it will get better.
Julie2009
tell him he hurt your feelings you know he is tired but you just wanted to spend some time enjoying his company. hang in there some just need a couple of days to readjust. peace and hugs
slkmom
just give him a back rub and be nice to him. he will see what he's doing wrong. unexpected things happening causes stress and he's not dealing well with it. good luck.
specialists
It truly is so hard to figure out how to deal with anothers moods such as that. Would it help at all if you maybe just openely approached him & openly asked what you could do to help make the situation better or maybe just let him know you love him.
kitty3
I expect he feels as badly as you do about not being able to rest or spend time with you and the family. The hot water system that blew was just the icing on the cake, and I'm pretty sure since he was going to rest up to get a small job for the rest of the week hit him as hard as it did you.Because now, what extra money he was going to make is spent before he makes it. Be extra nice to your hubby, sounds as if he could use some cheering up!
hugs
redheadedgranny
-hugs-
LookingForARayOfHope
I'm sorry to hear the sad news. Reality can be a real bummer; however, there is a ray of hope. offer to give him a massage............for his back, run your fingers (especially if you have fingernails) through his scalp.......nothing feels better! Buy some nice lingerie if you don't have any just for tonight and surprise him! Rub his feet...........men generally neglect their feet and they love having them pampered. Fix his favorite meal. In general, pull out all the stops. Good luck! I'll be wishing you the best.
Sad...........
sad8387
IT ALWAYS SEEMS LIKE WE TAKE IT OUT ON THE ONES WE LOVE THE MOST. I GUESS IT'S CAUSE WE KNOW THEY WONT DO ANYTHING WHEN WE DO. I HOPE HE IS IN A MUCH BETTER MOOD BY NOW. SORRY HE TOOK IT OUT ON YOU & MADE U FEEL SO BAD!!! TRY 2 ENJOY WHAT LITTLE TIME U HAVE WITH HIM!
GRACIESNAN
Hugs...not about to give relationship advice here because I'm a 0 out of 2, but something tells me you will figure this out. It is disappointing though, isn't it? Hang in there.
RonaS
Hot water system blew up? Crap, crappity, crap, crap, crap.
It'll be ok. If not, you'll make it so, eh?
unduki