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  • About Me

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    rayoplata

    Female, 57, Divorced
    UT, USA
    Member since November 30, 2008

    • About Me

      i love life but right now i need help to cope with divorce after 28 years he left me for another woman

      i love life but right now i need help to cope with divorce after 28 years he left me for another woman

    • Interests

      WALK, SEE MOVIES IN TV, GO TO EAT OUT, WHEN I CAN AND AFORD PLAY WITH MY cat AND PLAY WITH MY GRANDKIDS i voluntary help in a burn hospital for kids

      WALK, SEE MOVIES IN TV, GO TO EAT OUT, WHEN I CAN AND AFORD PLAY WITH MY cat AND PLAY WITH MY GRANDKIDS

  • Recent Activity

    November 12

    November 11

    • rayoplata commented on cnvilla’s journal entry Letting Go! 5:31pm

      YOUR SON WILL SEE THE TRUTH WHEN THE TIME COME DONT STOP SEING YOU GRANDCHILD OR YOUR SON JUST SAID THE…  
    • rayoplata gave cnvilla flowers 5:24pm

      HELLO : HOW ARE YOU DOING I AM OK FOR NOW BUT I AM CONFUSE VRCAUSE I AM THINKING A LOT AVOT MY EX I DONT…  
    • rayoplata wrote a journal entry updating their FORGET MY EX goal 5:02pm

      JUST WHEN I THINK I FORGET MY EX AFTER A YEAR OF THE DIVORCE NOW STARTS AGAIN I THINK OF HIM ALL THE…  
  • Journal

    • Journal Entry for November 11, 2009

      Mood November 11, 2009 5:02pm

      JUST WHEN I THINK I FORGET MY EX AFTER A YEAR OF THE DIVORCE NOW STARTS AGAIN I THINK OF HIM ALL THE TIME AND I HEAT IT BECAUSE I KNOW THE HE …
    • ALONE AND SAD

      Mood May 8, 2009 9:01am

      well i am still here i ex is pay me alimoney but i am working to have the money garnish from his pay check because right now hi is puting the money …
    • THE POEM OF LIFE

      Mood January 26, 2009 1:29am

      1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
      2. Memorize your favorite poem.
      3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all …
    • Journal Entry for December 13, 2008

      Mood December 13, 2008 10:02am

      i still very depresses my lawyer is not responding to my calls and when we went to the mediation it was not a mediateroe there only my lawyer and his …

    • ANOTHER DAY IN HELL

      Mood December 1, 2008 1:32pm

      TODAY I FELL BADDDDDDDDDD!!

      I FEEL LIKE I AM IN PRISON IN MY OWN HOUSE IS NOT MY HOUSE ANYMORE SOON WILL BE THE BANK WILL OWNED WHEN THEY REPOSED THE …

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    • Chocolate

      From cnvilla September 13

      Hi there My friend, I Hope you are doing well, I miss talking to you, God Bless you, Your family and friends...
      Love ya,Cathy

    • Hug

      From ginebra September 11

      Thank you so much for your support and encouragement. You all have helped me SO MUCH. You all helped me get through when I was scared or felt I couldn't go on. THANK YOU! AND YOU WILL get through all this pain and turmoil too...YOU WILL. It REALLY does just take time...it took me almost 11 months to get here. I am here for you if you need to vent. YOU CAN AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH ALL THIS TOO.

    • Hug

      From ginebra August 30

      Thank you for the kind words, M. I know you are going through a lot too. So many wounded people here on DS...you are not alone even though many times it feels like you are. We will all get through this mess and pain...this too shall pass. Hugs.

    • Hug

      From Gaelyn August 30

      I'm doing well! For the most part, life is good. Had a rough day the other day, but I'm back to being me again. I hope life's been treating you well!

    • Hug

      From truthsayer August 19

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  • Goals

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    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      MY HUSBAND LEFT ME WHEN I COME BACK FROM WORK I FOUND OUT THE NOTE SAID THE HE WANT THE DIVORCE AND THE RING WITH THE NOTE LATER I FOUND OUT THE HE MOVE IN WITH THIS WOMAN FROM WORK.I WAS LEFT IN THE HOUSE WICH IS IN BOTH NAME HE STOP PAYMENTS TO THE HOUSE AND I HEAR NO MORE FROM HI FOR ALLMOST A MONTH WHEN I SEE THE WAS NOT HIRING A LAWYER I WENT AND HIRE ONE HE WANTS FORECLOUSER BUT I DONT BECAUSE I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO RENT AN APARTMENT I FEEL BETRAYED. AND CONFUSE

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
      DON'T WORK
      Pets Working / Worked
      I HAVE MY DOG BUT IS OLD AND WITH BAD TEMPER WHEN I MOVE TO APARTMENT I WILL HAVE TO PUT HIM TO SLEEP IS GOING TO BE VERY HARD
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      IT HELPS A LOT THAT IS WY I, I CAN AFFORD TO GO TO THERAPY
      Time Too Soon to Tell
    • Close Infidelity

      my husband left me for another woman

      Treatments

      Divorce Too Soon to Tell
      Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful
    • Open Loneliness

      i getting divorce my soon to be ex left me for another woman older then me

    • Open Burns

      i am getting divorce my soon to be ex left me for another woman and i know now wat pain is i have some burns from when i was little 3 degree burns in my arm and neck i know wat is filing diferent

    • Open Career Changes

      rayoplata hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Life After Divorce

      i am divorce after 28 years

    • Open Rheumatoid Arthritis

      rayoplata hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Alzheimer's Disease
      Stage: Early Onset

      MY MOTHER. I THINK SHE HAS ALZHEMER'S, SHE TELL ME THE OTHER DAY, THE TV TALK TO HER, SHE TALK TO THE PERSON IN THE TV, AND HE RESPOND IS THIS NORMAL? SHE IS LEAVING ALONE FOR MANY YEARS, BECAUSE. I CAN'T BRINGER HERE WITH ME, SHE IS IN. SPAIN.AND THEY DONT LET HER COME HERE BECAUSE SHE IS TO OLD AND SICK AND SHE WILL NOT BE COVER HERE BECAUSE SHE DONT WORK HERE.

    • Open Family Issues

      i was left out alone when my husband left me only problem is the after 7 month of not see him i am still missing him when i was with him we dont make sex foe 10 years because he said the he was having problems i belibe him and i never try to put him down so i salince and stay with out it for 10 long years when he left me i went to his work and i found out the was seeing a woman from work please i need help wy miss him whe was such a bad man to me and when this will pass am afraid leave alone

      Treatments

      Music Working / Worked
      mo i dont make enuff money to afford a terapist and i dont have health insurance my work is part time i dont know wat to do thank marta
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