A poem for AJ
AJ, I wrote this poem for you from our visit to John Edward last night. You weren't there last night but I talked to you through Valerie last …
My name is Patty. I am married with 2 children. My daughter Tanya is 27 and my son AJ was 21 when he passed away on 10-01-08 in a car accident. I've worked at a community hospital for the past 22 years in the IT department. We have 3 dogs. All are white boxers and my husband is co-owner of a Canine Search and Rescue Unit.
My name is Patty. I am married with 2 children. My daughter Tanya is 27 and my son AJ was 21 when he passed away on 10-01-08 in a car accident. I've worked at a community hospital for the past 22 years in the IT department. We have 3 dogs. All are white boxers and my husband is co-owner of a Canine Search and Rescue Unit.
My children and I like to write poetry. I'm going to be a grandma!!!!!!!!!! My daughter Tanya is due December 10th. Finally something good for my family...... I know that AJ will be watching over his sister and the baby.
My children and I like to write poetry. I'm going to be a grandma!!!!!!!!!! My daughter Tanya is due
AJ, I wrote this poem for you from our visit to John Edward last night. You weren't there last night but I talked to you through Valerie last …
Today was really bad. When I woke up this morning I felt like I didn't sleep at all but yet I don't remember waking up at all during the …
The months have gone so fast, but the days all seem so long
I know that I must continue to live, I'm trying so hard to be strong
The …
I'm not getting very far with my goal. I just have not figured out how to move forward without my son. Tomorrow will be 2 months since he passed …
Sorry for your loss, I know this is a tough month for you. Big Hugs, Elly
Hey girl, I think we will always be so much more aware of other's losses since we know what they are going through. I am sorry I haven't answered sooner-I got injured at work on 9-24-a child had a tantrum, caused me to fall and tear up my left knee. I am a mess. We are waiting for worker's comp to approve surgery and if they do I will have it on 10-21. It means really scrimping as you have to go 7 days without pay and then worker's comp doesn't pay your full salary and I will be out for 4-6 weeks. Bummer, but it needs to be fixed. I am still going in-I take 15 mg of Vicodin in the morning to kill the pain, then Ed takes me into work. They are supposed to bring the kids to me as I can hardly walk. I am using crutches but by the end of the school day my leg is swollen up like you wouldn't believe. I just want to surgery to be over with so I can get on with my healing. I will keep you updated. Love, Sandy
My sweet Patty! Of course, you are feeling bad! The first "angel date" for Jamie, I had a major meltdown for 2 days and now that he is gone over 2 years, it seems like it doesn't get that much easier. I wish I could say that it does. It seems for a Mom that there is a hole in our heart and gut where our child used to be, at least, that is how it feels for me. I was gone several days for our 16th anniversary, so I didn't see your message until now. I have missed you, Hon, and think about you often! I am so happy for you for the new grandbaby, I know how bittersweet it must be for you, but I sooo envy you! I would give an arm to have a grandbaby. Jamie was my only child and he had no children. I know it won't replace your beloved son, but God is giving you a little angel and it will comfort you, of that I am sure! God Bless you, and do keep in touch! Love you, Judy
May you find comfort today in all your precious memories of AJ. Hold them close to your heart especially when it is breaking. Hugs, Ann
Thinking of you today my friend as you are remembering your sweet son AJ. I know all the good memories bring you comfort but it doesn't ease the pain, does it? I'm a littel past 2 years ... still as hard as the first.
Take care, Kelly