I just told my mom off today. She owes my Billy's (DF) grandma money and she has excuses of why don't she send her some money. He was invited to my sister's wedding back in September and he couldn't set at the bride's family table because he isn't family. I told my mom that if he isn't family then I don't want to be in this family no more and hung up on her. She has lied to me so much and don't understand what Im going through with TTC and every day things of my life since I was dx'd with TTP (thrombotic thrombocytopenic purpura) back in 2002. I was about to die a couple of times when my platelets were only 900 (normal is 140,000-450,000) and they was giving up on me. Billy made me eat when I didn't want to and my parents didn't have the patience to help me survive. I don't remember much of anything then but some stuff I do remember.
It hurt me more than anything when she told me that he isn't family and I told her that we have been together for 9 years and she said so. Billy's family looks to me as part of their family, but my own family can't accept him as part of the family. You got to know how they treat me, and know how they are. Billy has done work for them like Sunday 11/1 he put siding back up when the wind blew it off and fixed a gutter. Well he isn't going to do no more for them! They can hire help. I don't know if anyone else has been in the same boat, but it sucks. Writing this helps some but not a lot.





