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  • About Me

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    CCates

    Female, 57
    Tucson, AZ, USA
    Member since March 27, 2007

    • About Me

      I am the only child left to take care of my mother that has Dementia Some days are exhausting -- either she won't eat or she just sits and has a blank look on her and it just hurts me to see her

      I am the only child left to take care of my mother that has Dementia Some days are exhausting -- either she won't eat or she just sits and has a blank look on her and it just hurts me to see her

    • Interests

      I have 9 grandkids 5 paternal I have a wonderful husband we have been together for 11 years married 1 come next month--- like to ride my atv when I can find time plus read

      I have 9 grandkids 5 paternal I have a wonderful husband we have been together for 11 years married 1

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  • Journal

    • Nursing home time

      Mood April 25, 2008 3:19pm

      Well I have decided that I will place mom in a NH  I'm so sad at losing her oh I know that I can go visit her anytime I want as the Soical …
    • Decisions

      Mood April 24, 2008 10:18am

      I have spent the last two night with hardly any sleep and it just seems that over night mom has gone down hill.   Her wandering is …

    • Journal Entry for April 22, 2008

      Mood April 22, 2008 1:38pm

      I haven't written in awhile so I thought I would take a few minutes  and update.  Mom has started wandering around the houe just back …

    • Journal Entry for January 18, 2008

      Mood January 18, 2008 11:09pm

      I haven't started yet but I did this once before and it really works  but I had so much stress that I picked up my crutch again   …
    • Journal Entry for March 27, 2007

      Mood March 27, 2007 1:55pm

      Today being 03/27/07 I feel so lost most of the time I try so hard to take care of mom she was in a rehab nursing home last year and they didn't take …

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    • Hug

      From brianPDX59 April 28, 2008

      At some point it is more than we can do on our own. You'll be needing lots of sleep. Take good care of yourself. There's still some hard times ahead, I know.

    • Hug

      From mrswalls April 25, 2008

      How sweet and thoughtful you are! Thank you Thank you :) it mys havebeen so very hard to place your mom but I am proud of you and everyone else who has the courage to do what is right. Gpd Bless you!

    • Hug

      From daddyslittlegirl90 April 25, 2008

      hugs hope your good!!!

    • Flower

      From morganfairy April 25, 2008

      oh girl!..I have been so stuck in my own situation...Its ok you know its the right thing..Dont let it hurt you anymore...get back into life!

    • Prayer

      From desiree30 April 25, 2008

      Your strength, your family and the love between you and your mom will get you through this. I have not read your entire journal so i dont know if youpray or not but I will pray for you. For me its the only thing thats keeps me going. A friend

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    • Close Dementia

      We moved my mother in with us 2 1/2 years ago. I kept taking her to her dr and he just said she was old and that she was't depressed even though she has buried all but two of her family members, myself and my oldest brother. I changed dr and found out she has dementia. Some days it is hard becasue she has that little girl look in her eyes and other just a blank stare-- she knows me but not any important days one time she told a friend of hers she didn't live with me--that hurt.

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