ANGELKITTEN's Journal

Well I got up this morning and made lunch( chicken noodle soup with two smoked turkey and cheese sandwiches and a ding dong) for my honey and made him breakfast (hot oatmeal) then got his son his meds that he takes every morning and hugged and kissed him good bye.

Then I got myself a bowl of cereal and got my phone to see it had a text on it. He text me telling me he loved me and kept texting me every little bit with more of the same. He left concerned about me today. He said I didn't seem myself. I was to cheer up. I said I have been like this all weekend and you are just now noticing? I told him yesterday after a big discussion about "Mother's Day"  that all I would have like to have gotten from him was "Happy Mother's Day", Then I got it. 3-4 times right after each other. He doesn't understand why women what something almost every month. Valentines Day, Birthday, Christmas, Mother's Day, Anniversary, etc. Don't they get enough? Then after all that conversation we went to town and bought 50-60 dollars worth of stuff to help him feel better and to aid getting rid of his cold. While out there he said " Well if I had gotten you Roses and a card then I wouldn't have had enough to get all this. I said " Well obviously this is more important to get you feeling better." You know so many times he says "You just don't get it." Well you know what a lot of times he just don't get it either. How do you get him to understand that there are other ways of looking at things too. If I don't get it please have patience and explain it to me. I'd be glad to explain it to him if he really wanted to know. 

Well a more positive note. My youngest son is coming over and taking me out to Lunch. He always does something with me on special days for me. He is so sweet to me.

All of my children except my oldest son wished me a Happy Mother's Day and I wasn't expecting anything from him because he hasn't really talked to me or anything for the last 4 years or so. It is sad but what can ya do. I have tried many times to mend things but he choses to keep his distance from me.  Well I got to get off for now. HUGS & LOVES to all of you and Thank you for caring and loving me and giving me so much support and respect. Many Thanks.