Journal Entry for October 7, 2008
Ok, so we are trying something new here. I am tired of trying to entertain myself at work and need something too keep me from pounding my head …
On marriage #2. Have 2 daughters from previous marriage (8&6). Ex husband makes the girls feel like he wants them, but he really doesn't. He does not visit them or keep them according to the visitation order. Constantly talks bad about me and acts like he is the better person/parent. Very happy in current marriage. Sometimes encounter issues with new husbands kids not ever wanting to spend time with my husband (their father). Going through the trials of trying to blend two families.
On marriage #2. Have 2 daughters from previous marriage (8&6). Ex husband makes the girls feel like he wants them, but he really doesn't. He does not visit them or keep them according to the visitation order. Constantly talks bad about me and acts like he is the better person/parent. Very happy in current marriage. Sometimes encounter issues with new husbands kids not ever wanting to spend time with my husband (their father). Going through the trials of trying to blend two families.
pretty much up for anything.
pretty much up for anything.
Ok, so we are trying something new here. I am tired of trying to entertain myself at work and need something too keep me from pounding my head …
I don’t want any of you to feel as though I’m just leaving without saying anything as to the reason why I feel I must leave DS. As many of you have probably heard by now, if you google your user name EVERYTHING, journal entries, profile, etc. is there for everyone to see. I don’t feel this is right and I don’t feel as though what I message my friends should be made public. So, as much as I’m going to miss you all, I feel it in my best interest to leave DS. I’m really going to miss you all. Sparrow
I just wanted to give you a hug and let you know that you’re in my thoughts and I pray that God will give you a tomorrow filled with love, happiness and good health.
Just wanted to stop by and let you know I was thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.
I'm here for you.
I hope you have a great day. Gentle hugs, Tricia
I have been divorced for nearly 4 years. I have 2 girls from the marriage (8&6). Their father does not see them or keep them per the visitation order. Maybe once a week or so he will go to their school and have lunch with them. The girls come home and tell me things that my ex says to them about me. He constantly puts me down and makes the girls feel like he wants them, when he really doesn't or else he would get them during his visitation time. I'm made out to be the bad person.
Divorced and since remarried (and much happier!). Have 2 girls of the marriage (8&6). Their father does not keep them like he is supposed to. Maybe visits them one day a week at the school during lunch, if that. Makes me out to be the bad person to the girls. Constantly puts me down.
I have suffered from depression since having my first child. Acutally first diagnosed with post-partum depression. Have had the lingering effects for several years. Just not the "bubbly" personality type.
I have 2 herniated disks in my back thanks to a high school weight lifting injury. 11 years laters, my toes on the right foot go numb often and I have developed neck stiffness/pain and daily headaches. I have had 2 steriod injections in my back. They seem to provide temporary relief, but nothing long term.
I have 2 daughters from a previous marriage (8&6). They love their father like they did (if not more) when we were all a familiy. Ex does not keep or visit the girls. Constantly puts me down in front of the girls. Makes me out to be the bad person in every situation. New husbands 2 kids (6&3)want nothing to do with him or us. Their mother tells the kids to call their dad by his name and not dad. Hurts my husband deeply that his kids treat him that way. I'm not sure what to do.
My doctor recently put me on a medication for fibromyalgia. I have 2 herniated disks in my lower back, my toes on the right foot go numb, and I have moderate to severe neck/shoulder pain and constant headaches. I'm not sure if my diagnosis falls under the fibromyalgia category.
I had gastric bypass surgery in Jan 05. I have since lost about 100 lbs at the max, but have leveled and gain 10-15 lbs in a course of nearly 4 years. I have to have B-12 injections monthly due to lack of absorption. I also have to take vitamins and iron in the "soft gel" form to make sure that my body gets the needed nutrients.
My ex only visits our daughters (8&6) during their school lunch maybe a couple times a month. He makes them feel like he wants them and that he is a better parent then me, but he really doesn't want them. He is determined to make me out to be the "bad" person in the scenario. My current husbands kids from his previous marraige never want to spend time with him. They call on his weekends and say that they do not want to come over. We used to force them to come over the would cry to go home.
My ex fought in our divorce for the house. 4 years later he decides he is not going to pay for it anymore and I am getting the collection notices and foreclosure certified mail. I keep telling the mortgage company that I have no rights to the place and would be in violation of my court order. I can't pay for "his" house and mine too! He was give 10K for it and didn't put a penny to the house. He says he's owner financing- but no one is making payments!!
My step kids do not ever want to spend time with their father or our new family. Their mother has taught them to call their dad by his name and not "dad" or "daddy". They call her new husband dad. He is the type of person that does not show his feelings, but I know it hurts him. I do not know how to remedy the situation.