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AlohaGirl
Female, 39, CA
"Live a good life and in the end, it isn't the years in the life but the life in the years."
6:33pm, October 9, 2008

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    AlohaGirl

    Female, 39
    CA, USA
    Member since October 3, 2008

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      My husband had a heart attack in September at the age of 39 and my life as I knew it changed forever. We started dating in high school when I was 15 and we married in 1993. I am so lucky to have met my soulmate at such a young age and am truly thankful for the time we had together.

      My husband had a heart attack in September at the age of 39 and my life as I knew it changed forever. We started dating in high school when I was 15 and we married in 1993. I am so lucky to have met my soulmate at such a young age and am truly thankful for the time we had together.

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    • Journal Entry for September 14, 2009

      Mood September 14, 2009 12:04pm

       Well I made it past the 1 year anniversary of Alex's passing.  The morning was very emotional for me as that is the time of day …

    • Journal Entry for September 8, 2009

      Mood September 8, 2009 11:03am

       

      This was posted today and wanted to save it as it is exactly how I feel.  Now that the one year mark is almost behind me, I need to find …

    • Journal Entry for September 1, 2009

      Mood September 1, 2009 12:30pm

       Less than 2 weeks until the 1 year mark.  Wow, I can hardly believe it.  I am so incredibly blessed to have such a great network of …

    • Journal Entry for July 30, 2009

      Mood July 30, 2009 1:40am

       

      I am starting to get worked up with the upcoming 1 yr anniversary of Alex's passing.  With how painful it is sometimes without him, …

    • Journal Entry for May 15, 2009

      Mood May 15, 2009 2:38pm

       

      I can't believe it has been almost 5 months since I have written in my journal.  I think I stopped because I felt I no longer needed …

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      From lindalun September 9

      Gina: Thank you for your kind words. As you stated this is a long hard journey that we all travelled but at the end we will finally see some light. I miss my husband so much that the pain seems to intensify as time goes by. I pray and ask God to let me have him back or dream him to know that he is okey. I have only dreamt him once and it hurts so much because I want to hug him even if it is in just my dream. I hope that someday I will be at the stage that you are today. I don't understand the purpose of death and why did God take my husband. I feel so lonely and there is a big void in me. Sept 26th is my husband's birthday and I don't know what to do. Relatives want to come over and spend the day with me but I am not sure I am up to it. I am dreading that day so much. Thank you for your kind advice. God bless you Linda

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      From SUEDR September 8

      Wow Gina, I can't imagine not having my kids to keep me going. You must be a strong woman. Do you have family close? I have my Mom and my sister and her family, and my brother and his fiance. I don't know how I could handle this without all of there support.
      Have you tried a support group for young widow/widowers? I think that may be my next step, just getting there is the hard part for me. I hate first's. You know what I mean .Hope you had a good day today . Take care, Sue

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      From SUEDR September 4

      Gina, So good to hear from you. Please keep in touch. Just wondering if you and your husband had any kids? Susan

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      From rememberingstephie September 3

      Wanted you to have a piece of chocolate to say thanks for being my friend, as well as being who you are as a woman. i look forward to talking soon. Take care and have a wonderful weekend.

      Take care of you...hugs from Atlanta,
      Scott

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      From rememberingstephie September 1

      Thanks so much for your hug. Have a great week.

      Take care of you,
      Scott

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