Keep Movin' On....
September 3, 2009 6:56pm
August was a rough month for me. I got tested for Herpes & everything else since I was unsure if Eric had cheated.....that test came …
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BLAAAAHHH!!!!
July 6, 2009 7:23pm
What a very interesting weekend I had. The only good thing about Friday was that I was off work. I passed up going to the lake with my …
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Just Peachy
July 1, 2009 6:46pm
So Eric and I have been communicating this week. Thank God. We went like a week and a half without talking to each other at all. I …
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OMG...for real???!!!!
June 29, 2009 7:58pm
I really don't even feel like writing this journal today, but I know by doing so I will feel so much better! This day has been absolutely …
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Hi Sweetie, I can only hope things are going well for you this weekend! oxoxox Shannon
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hey how is college going for you?
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Hi Steph, I haven't seen you in awhile and just read your last two journal posts from several weeks ago. Sorry, I never saw that you had posted anything before now. Loved the one about The Anchor Holds. Is everything okay? Just in case you're needing them, wanted to send some love and hugs your way! I do hope whatever is making you feel horrible is fixable. Prayers, hon, lots and lots of prayers, Judi
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Hi Stephanie, how are you? Just wanted thank you for your sweet comments on my journal and let you know you're in my thoughts. How is Eric's mom doing now? I do wish she would join us here but I since she can't please let her know there's someone here who cares and sends their love and support. That's a beautiful picture of Jude and Charlie you posted! Take care, dear girl - Judi
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Hi Stephanie, how are you doing, hon? You are trying so hard to help and I so admire you for reaching out with such a loving heart. May God bless every one of your efforts! Judi
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a RelativeMy boyfriend of four years lost his dad in January of this year. It has been very hard on him and his family and I hate seeing them hurt like this. It has taken a toll on our relationship, and sometimes I don't even know if we will make it. I just wish I could understand better.
Treatments
- Crying Somewhat Helpful
- I feel a little better after, but I still don't know what to do.
- Getting Angry Not Working
- I don't really get angry, just frustrated. I'm an outsider to them and I don't know what to say or do or if there is even anything to be said or done.
- Keeping Busy Not Working
- I feel like the busier I am the more he feels like I don't have time for him. It's a constant struggle.
- Music Not Working
- The music I usually pick is too depressing and borderline pathetic.
- Prayer Working / Worked
- I feel helpless. But I know God knows what's best for everyone and He is the only One who can make it right again.
- Remembering Not Working
- Remembering what we used to be is too hard. Our relationship has changed so much this year.
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- They always offer inspiring thoughts, but then when reality sets in again, it's hard to think positively.
- Talking Not Working
- We have talked about our relationship, but he can never think about how I feel through all of this. God knows I try my best to put myself in his shoes before I open my big mouth. I usually just end up getting my feelings hurt.
- Time Too Soon to Tell
- I have done a lot of reading on bereavement and grief, and from what I have read, the first year is the hardest. It is almost the one year mark, and I can see some improvement in his moods, but sometimes he has swings and I don't know what's going on.
Close Healthy Relationships
My boyfriend of four years lost his dad in January of this year. It obviously has taken a toll on our relationship.
Treatments
- Patience Not Working
- Nothing ever changes. Waiting around only makes me feel worse.
- Talking Not Working
- When we start talking it usually ends in us fighting. He can't see things my way even when I try my best to see things his.
- Writing Somewhat Helpful
- Writing my feeling out definitely allows me to vent, but the problem is still there.
Open College Stress
I have struggled with juggling school, work, and my boyfriend for going on five years now. I lost my financial aid this spring when I failed a class. Luckily I got it back after I appealed. I have two more classes left to graduate with my Accounting degree. I want to go for my master's, but my GPA just isn't there yet. I'm really working hard at it, but my relationship with my boyfriend is difficult. My boyfriend's dad passed away in January and I feel like I'm not there for him enough.
Treatments
- Sleep Working / Worked
- It makes me feel rejuvenated.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- They give me good advice sometimes, but how well I do in school is completely up to me.
Open Children Of Divorced Parents
My parents divorced when I was 3 years old. This is something I have lived with my whole life. Dad is in his third marriage, mom is in her fifth!
Open Time Management
StephR hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Open Breakups & Divorce
Ended a five year relationship.
Treatments
- Love Working / Worked
- I love him with all I have! There is no way that will ever change.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- My friends are an amazing support group for me. They all agree with my decision 110%.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Talking about it helps reinforce why I made the decision I did and helps me to not regret it.
