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TrudyHarper
Female, 34, NY
"It's has gotten a little better."
1:18pm, September 10, 2009
feeling helpless Mood
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 | A Sad story
I'm having such a hard time right now. I was told last night night that we need to make a decision wheather to keep my grandfather in the nursing homw and keep him comfortable or let them put him back in the hospital and see if they can get him up to par. My grandfather has elztimers. His wife made him sign papers when he wasn't in the right state of mind of who was his health proxy. Now it's her son and he has been hiding all his money. We have reported it and no one seems to care. I fell like they just want our ok to give up on him. I know his 85 years old with medical problems which by the way I think the nursing home was the cause of it. But me aunts and uncles are asking me to let him stay there and let them make him comfortable and let him go. I can't do that. I don't know what to do. I really want to ring him home. Because I feel if he is going to die then he needs to die with us and not where it's a strange place with strange people that don't give a crap about him. I just don't know what to do!!!!!!!! 

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