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yearsoftears
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About Me
I am a single mother , with a 13 year old son , whom has a diagonisis of mild mental retardation, autism , adjustment disorder, and the list goes on . I am currently a student , persuing a RSNG. I don't get out much, and friends , well they just don't always get it!
I am a single mother , with a 13 year old son , whom has a diagonisis of mild mental retardation, autism , adjustment disorder, and the list goes on . I am currently a student , persuing a RSNG. I don't get out much, and friends , well they just don't always get it!
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Flower
I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I'm here if you want to talk, okay? As always, you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Little Love
Sending you big hugs and lots of love and sympathy for the loss of your Dad. I'm praying for you and your family.
Flower
Sorry for your loss.Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hug
Hi there, just wanted to reach out to you and say hi and I miss you!!! Hugs Denise
Shout Out
Hey there, miss you.... I know you are moving but call me when you have time.... I have a question for you. Much love Denise
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Close Healthy Eating
I suffer from depression and anxiety, mostly steming from enviornmental factors beyond my control. I am a single mother of a 13 year old disabled child. I am also a full time student ( RSNG) and I work part time. The constant care of my son , and being his advocate is in itself a full time job. I gained 80 pounds when I was preg. with my son, never lost it all, later gained even more ! I felt that I deserved to eat as I pleased, being I had made ultimate sacrifices. This was just made it worse.
Treatments
- Phentermine Working / Worked
- I have been on Phentermine for 1 month. I have lost 14 pounds, and I feel more focused, and alert. My eating habits have changed some. I am eating south beach dinners for breakfast and lunch, and eating 2 snack bars a day as well, for dinner , I eat less but pretty much what I want.Side effects I experience : execessive thirst,headache-mild, heart papultations- if I am sitting around- moving about-hardly notice them, and the best- decreased appitetite!!!
Close Autism / Autism Spectrum
Treatments
- ABA Working / Worked
- Was working, until MHMRA pulled funding.
- Abilify Working / Worked
- He is much calmer, not as many meltdowns. His paranoid episodes have decreased almost completely!
- Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Not Working
- We tried all the diets, detox.....you name it! It did not work for him, but I think every parent has to try everything for their children as each child reacts differently to each treatment! And that way you know you did try everything, ya just gotta know when enough is enough, and your kiddo's will find their way of letting ya know when it's enough, believe me, I know!!!!!
- Behavior Management Working / Worked
- He has 2 BIP, one for routine and a backup crisis BIP.
- Brushing Therapy Not Working
- This agitated my son even more.........
- Chelation Therapy Not Working
- Ahhhhhhh didn't take the autism away! The mud bath was messy, he didn't like it, although he was small when we tried it, and the drops as well, he just never improved, it was a waste of money for us......but you have to try it , if ya ever want to know? Each child is uniquely different!!!!
- Concerta Working / Worked
- This med. has helped him focus at school and at home. It has helped him with being able to sustain attention to academics and absorb the information.
- Early Intervention Working / Worked
- He started in EIC from the early age of 2 and a half , it was the best thing and I owe his progress to EIC.......You must start early, that is the key!!!!!!!
- Facilitated Communication Considering
- I have recently been intrigued about this one and am currently researching this method. I will say , so far, it appears to have good outcomes???dunno......we'll see!
- Floor-Time Therapy Working / Worked
- This was very helpful when he was small, but then again ,we still have play time on the floor! Forget calling it floor time therapy, it's fun time, and that just sounds FUN!!!
- Independent Living Skills Working / Worked
- We have been battleing this one! Oh what a challenge! But you must be consistant, persistant, and patient!!!!!!!!!
- Occupational Therapy Working / Worked
- helped when he was younger, not so much now that he's 13
- Patience Working / Worked
- This is the only way to cope......it is not going to happen overnight! But each day is a new day , and practice over time = perfect!!!!!!!!
- Pets Not Working
- NO WAY! HE IS TOO ROUGH!
- Picture / Word Schedules Working / Worked
- The best method for beginning communication skills used in conjunction with sign language, demonstrating and modeling!!!!!
- Play Therapy Working / Worked
- All the time!!!!!!!!!!
- Risperdal Working / Worked
- IT MELLOWED HIM OUT WHEN HE WAS LITTLE, HE ALWAYS NEEDED A DOSAGE INCREASE, HE FINALLY MAXED OUT ON IT.
- Sign Language Working / Worked
- This was the beginning foundation for all communicatin skills my son has aqquired, and let me just say, the doctors said he would NEVER TALK......uh..he never shuts up!lol! never give up!
Open Infertility
I am not currently trying to get PG.I lost a baby in 2005. I am focusing on becoming a Registered Nurse at the present time.
Open Sexual Abuse
some thing's I will take to my grave with me.....
Open Obesity
Hello, well...huh..my story......got all day????? ok..well I'll be nice and shorten it a bit for ya! Ok... I have a child diagniosed with Autism, he is 14 and to be honest....its' been.years-of-tears......ya can't even begin to imagine.....anyway,I had always worked a full time job and simply justified my eating habits,as I honestly felt,that I deserved to eat as I pleased,after all I earned the keep,I became very depressed off-on over the years, and now am obese, depressed, READY TO LOSE!
Treatments
- Slim-Fast Working / Worked
- I have them in the fridge....they are ok...but.they don't work if ya don't use them !
- Phentermine Working / Worked
- I love this stuff! But it is costly if ya have no insurance..on the down side.it will keep ya awake..but then again.thats a plus for me!
Open Colon Cancer
My father has just been dx with colon cancer and I am devestated......I am trying to learn as much as I can in a fast-track course....and would appreciate all the help I can.
Open Depression
I am a single mother of a handsome 14yr old son , whom has a dx of Autism and Mental Retardation. I have suffered with depression off and on throught the years, stimming from the things.....momma just can't fix.....and the constant wear and tear...mentally....physically..and emotionally.....
Treatments
- Effexor Too Soon to Tell
- I just started taking this med.....dunno...
Open Smoking Addiction & Recovery
yearsoftears hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Open Child Support & Custody
I am a c/p and have taken care of my son solely up until this past May. I finally got his father into court and FINALLY HAVE SOME RELIEF! I will say...the n/c/p is now appealing the modified c/s amount and this has yet ONCE AGAIN..SET US 2 STEPS BACK! I dunno why he can't just be compliant...he has the easy part....just send out the check....I have the daily struggles that goes along with my son's DX of autism and mental retardation....being mom....advocate..well....its a full time job!
Open Back Pain
I was in a car accident on May 2nd 2009. I have an injury to the L-5 , nerve damage, a buldging disc, paralyzed from the knee down on the right leg, headaches and nauesa due to the mylogram that they did at the hospital. I am still waiting to get into a neurosurgeon and an orthopedic surgeon. I must say...my life was flipped upsidedown...in a matter of a day...
Treatments
- Bedrest Somewhat Helpful
- Sick of being layed up in the bed....but if I don't..I swell up and am worse off!
- Flexeril Somewhat Helpful
- Helps with the leg spasms.
- Heat Working / Worked
- Hydrocodone Somewhat Helpful
- really dosen't take the edge off the pain! It's all I have, better than nothing?
Open Paralysis
I was in an automobile accident on May 2nd 2009 and have Paralysis in my my right lower leg due to nerve damage.
Open Chronic Pain
I am here to try and find help getting my back pain manageable...
Treatments
- Flexeril Not Working
- Heat Somewhat Helpful
- Hydrocodone Not Working
- Physical Therapy Too Soon to Tell
- TENS Somewhat Helpful
Open Bereavement
Type: Loss of a ParentI will add this later.....just joined this community tonight....and not ready to talk about the loss of my Daddy :(
Treatments
- Crying Somewhat Helpful
- Remembering Working / Worked
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- Xanax Somewhat Helpful
- why lie...I am overwhelmed with grief and anxiety......dunno what to do..and feel like I could snap at any moment....
- Prozac Too Soon to Tell
- Yeah....Daddys gone.....I AM DEPRESSED......















