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About Me
sunnymommy
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About Me
my husband decided to have his midlife crisis in his 20s and abandoned his wife and small children. he won't talk or try, he's just gone all of a sudden.
my husband decided to have his midlife crisis in his 20s and abandoned his wife and small children. he won't talk or try, he's just gone all of a sudden.
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Interests
making life as warm and loving as possible for my kids, making a home for us, and fitting back into my skinny jeans!
making life as warm and loving as possible for my kids, making a home for us, and fitting back into my
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Recent Activity
November 11
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sunnymommy updated their status 10:00pm
single...again…
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sunnymommy changed their mood to Bad 10:00pm
April 1
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sunnymommy turned 27 12:00am
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are you still awake?
Little Love
Life is going better!Ex is behaving himself for the "moment".lol Been back in school and feeling better about myself.My kiddo is well too.Thanks for checking on me.
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How are u doing?lots of hugs.I hope u are doing better.
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Hug
up to my neck at the moment will romance you soon ;-)
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you are so sweet
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
he left us when i was 7 months pregnant. it was supposed to be for a job, and i moved the whole family out there no knowing that he was leaving us!no indication whatsoever until my son and i were out there almost 3 weeks. he told me over the phone that he didn't love me anymore, hadn't for a long time, it was over, and there was no hope for reconcilitaion. so i had my family come out and haul my 9 months pregnant tail back home, filed, and had the baby 6 weeks early.he wasn't there.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
- it went very well, or it seemed to. then he left. he said he went ot shut me up, didn't intend for it to help. just gave it lip service.
- Family Therapy Too Soon to Tell
- i'm in therapy individually to deal with depression. and our son and i go to family counseling to help him deal with this. he's having a hard time.
- Leave Working / Worked
- i firmly believe that we would have stayed together if i'd physically stayed. but he would have considered himself absolved of marriage vows and duties and considered us roomates from then on.it would have been bad for the kids, and there would have been major custody issues.
- Love Not Working
- i'm trying to act in love and not be vindictive. it's hard, he's playing dirty. it's breaking my heart to keep turning the other cheek.
- Music Working / Worked
- helps me cry if i need to, dance if i need to, or sing out loud to make my son laugh.
- Psychotherapy Too Soon to Tell
- i've only been a couple times, and i mostly cry and use up all of her tissues.
- Reading Not Working
- self help books make me feel a bit hopeles at the moment.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- i know it's tiring for them, draining. some days i put on the game face and pretend to be ok. most of them accept that at face value and continue to stay close by for when i break down and need to talk or company.
- Support Groups Too Soon to Tell
- i've joined a church. and there are support groups in the are i'm going to start attending, childcare issues allowing.
- Talking Working / Worked
- it really helps get it all out on the table and out of your head. writing also helps a lot. i have a journal that is almost full already.
- Time Too Soon to Tell
- i keep hearing how well i'm doing. i don't feel that way. we'll see...
Close Fitness Goals
Type: Improve overall fitnesstrying to get rid of the post baby baggage!
Treatments
- Dancing Working / Worked
- lol,only when noone is watching...
- Elliptical Trainer Not Working
- i felt like i was hyperextending my knees!
- Hiking Working / Worked
- love it. it's wicked hot here most of the time though. so it's a winter sport!
- Kickboxing Working / Worked
- loves it!
- Pilates Working / Worked
- have the videos, they work great
- Running Somewhat Helpful
- Weight Training Working / Worked
- it's helping to tone up my post baby bits.
- Weight Watchers Somewhat Helpful
- waaaay pricy
Open Single Parenting
my ex husband left us this past summer and sporadically returns to mess with our minds. lots of upheaval and change but we'll land on our feet. i'm sure
Open Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)
my son just turned 4. he has a new baby brother.
Treatments
- Attachment Parenting Working / Worked
- Child Time-out Working / Worked
- Education (School) Working / Worked
- Patience Working / Worked
- Positive Reinforcement Working / Worked
Open Parenting Newborns & Infants (0-1)
tiny preemie with lots of fight and strong will. he's doing great!
Treatments
- Attachment Parenting Working / Worked
- he's a happy, smily baby despite the family turmoil at this time. he sleeps with me is he wants to. never really cries, jis cues are responded to before he gets teh chance,
- Breast Feeding Working / Worked
- teething stinks
- Patience Working / Worked
- Research Working / Worked
- the dr. sears books are wonderful!
Open Life After Divorce
very recently signed the papers! free at last. had NO idea that this process would be so long and emotional.
Open Anger Management
i'm at the "angry place" post divorce, and i'm pretty much in a rage in less time than it takes to blink. need some help before my mug at work says "crazy chick" haha
