I don't JOURNAL, Don't have the Strength !!!!
April 6, 2009 5:56pm
Goal Completed on Apr 6, 09
DEBALA
4:36pm, October 8, 2009
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About Me
DEBALA
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About Me
I have 1 daughter who is a Social Worker, she is married to a member of 82nd Airborne Division. I have 4 grandchildren. The oldest just entered Boot Camp and will graduate in January 09. I am single, mello, friendly and loyal! I am divorced, but NOT looking. lol
I have 1 daughter who is a Social Worker, she is married to a member of 82nd Airborne Division. I have 4 grandchildren. The oldest just entered Boot Camp and will graduate in January 09. I am single, mello, friendly and loyal! I am divorced, but NOT looking. lol
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Interests
I enjoy my friends. I believe laughter is indeed the BEST medicine! I enjoy learning new things. I LOVE movies. And sometimes I enjoy just doing nothing !!!!!
I enjoy my friends. I believe laughter is indeed the BEST medicine! I enjoy learning new things. I LOVE
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Recent Activity
November 3
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DEBALA gave Jonesen a well done 11:45am
I dunno Jones I think you are strong times infinity. To have 6 months clean is awesome !!! Hugs, Deb…
July 21
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DEBALA turned 85 12:00am
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Hey Deb!!!! Jonesen's tha name determination's tha game!!! Did I used ta get high??
LMAO Damn, I can't remember that???Well, maybe...but ya know what? It's like an old friend I used ta have that kicked my ass for tha last time. He's stronger but I'm smarter. Hope you're good hun. Love, Jonesie 
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Hey Deb, great to hear from you. I have also been MIA on DS lately, not feeling the best. I hear you about life's ups and downs. They can really mess things up. Sure hope you get to feeling better, we miss you when you can't visit!!! Peace and love, Tinder
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Hey D, I have been sick, and am really jealous that you are going to the beach. Sorry it took so long for me to reply. Soon I am getting hi-speed, and will be able to be more active. I hope all is well with you, and wish you a beautiful day. Love tinder
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Big hugs to you miss lady!!! Hope all is well. I know you're not cold down there, so I won't worry. I tried seroquil and it didn't help me much, but others have lots of good results with it. Take care, and walk on the beach for me, please. Love Tinder
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Hi Deb. I'm here finally to give you a well deserved hug. I see you're takin' Seroquel from your status. I've taken that before too when they thought I was bi-polar. Turns out I was just on a straight 5 yr drunk 'n drug binge so my personality was a TAD bit altered. HA! I really can't recall how it affected me 'cause I was on 6 others at the same time. I hope you are feeling good sweety. I'm doin' just fine. Love, Jonesen
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Goals
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
Been separated since '06 just divorced Dec. 07. He was addicted to crack and I could not take anymore. I left UPDATE: I SO hate him now. What a bum.everything, but have my own apt. now. I do still love him, but know I cannot deal with his addiction or womanizing. My daughter gave me this puter,( first it was a dog) lol, that didn't work so the puter is better! Still cannot forgive him for the shambles he did to my life.
Treatments
- Leave Not Working
- At first it was really bad, but time has helped. I have given him alot of chances sinces then, but the drug rules him.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Talking Working / Worked
Close Cocaine Addiction & Recovery
My ex became addicted to crack, cheated and destroyed our marriage. I really don't understand the addiction. He (and me) lost everything. He has been in aand out of jail. Still no stopping him!
Open Families & Friends Of Addicts
I finally left my addict husband, after he gave me an STD. There was no way I could stay after that. So I left my hom with pool and jacuzzi, as well as my little dog. I now live in goverment housing, but I no longer have to deal with his addiction and everything that comes with it! I am lonely, I do still love him. But I just cannot deal with his "stuff" UPDATE... HATE HIM !!!!
Treatments
- Patience Somewhat Helpful
- Time has worked as well as him proving over and over again that the drug comes first in his life.
Open Prescription Drug Abuse
DEBALA hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Open Chronic Pain
Disabled due to Fibromyalgia and chronic pain.
Treatments
- Chiropractic Adjustment Working / Worked
- Heat Working / Worked
- Lidoderm Working / Worked
Open Families of Prisoners
My EX is incarcerated. His release Date is Dec. 30 2009, Bet he has something STUPID planned for New Years... he is such an idiot...
Treatments
- Patience Working / Worked
- Just plain ole time moving along.. like they say time heals ALL wounds.
Open Military Families
My grandson is at Boot Camp. Ft. Benning, Ga.
Open Accidents
DEBALA hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Open Bereavement
Type: Loss of a SiblingMy little sister passed on Feb. 7 2009. She had battled Lupus since she was 17, she wsd 47 when she passed. We did the right thing by disconnecting life support. She passed a few mins. later. Very Peaceful. I am BROKENHEARTED
Treatments
- Crying Too Soon to Tell
- It does help for a little while, and then I can get a royal headache
- Getting Angry Considering
- I could put my fist through a wall
- Music Too Soon to Tell
- Prayer Working / Worked
- Remembering Working / Worked
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
Open Lupus
My younger sister suffered from System Lupus and passed on Feb 7,09. She had a kidney transplant in 96. Untimately her high blood presure left her brain damaged and we decided to discontinue life support. She passed 1 week before her 48th birthday. I miss her terribly.
Open Back Pain
Herniation in C 6 & 7. Here for support both to give and receive
Treatments
- Bedrest Working / Worked
- Only stay in bed when absolutely necessary, but I spend ALOT of time on the couch, changing positions continually.
- Carisoprodol Working / Worked
- Chiropractic Adjustment Working / Worked
- The absolute best but ooooonly from one Dr. She is the GREATEST !!
- Cortisone (Injection) Not Working
- Darvon Not Working
- Its been years ago and did not relieve the pain
- Fentanyl Not Working
- No way, it made me wonder about my thoughts, like a new anti-depressant that makes you feel very weird
- Fioricet Working / Worked
- Oh it worked so well, but my new PMD says a neurologist must prescribe it. Cannot afford ANOTHER medical bill
- Flexeril Not Working
- Did Nothing for the pain, Soma works much much better
- Heat Working / Worked
- Oh yes, Can't use in summer only if the pain is excruating. Too hot here in Florida. Winter is GREAT. I used to have a jacuzzi, now that was the cat's pajamas, it went with my marriage... poof
- Hydrocodone Not Working
- I was on it for 13 years, had built up tolerance so it did nothing for the pain was great in the beginning
- Ibuprofen Working / Worked
- Sometimes for the head pain in addition to the oxy
- Naproxen Working / Worked
- Same as the Ibuprofen
- Relaxation Working / Worked
- Cannot push my body too hard, so I have to rest
- Stretching Working / Worked
- Temporary relief
