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  • About Me

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    bluegurl81

    Female, 28
    NC, USA
    Member since August 14, 2008

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  • Journal

    • No Money, Mo' Problems...

      Mood September 9, 2009 4:11pm

      Well a new situation has arisen out of my current relationship status.  The money situation....

       

      We dont live together, we have separate …

    • Here we go again...

      Mood June 2, 2009 10:36pm

      ... and it's probably all my fault.  We have been doing well, and I was beginning to trust somewhat again.  But he has been active …

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    • It doesnt feel like closure...

      Mood April 2, 2009 4:16am

      Here lately, I have been kinda distant, but for no real reason.  Just kind of down.  My SO noticed this too, and kept asking if I was …

    • *sighs*

      Mood March 28, 2009 2:01am

      In really think the gods are trying to hammer into my head relationships... that is my journey and my life lesson right now.

       

      Going through a …

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  • Goals

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    Goal End Date is Jan 1, 09 332 days ago.

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    Goal End Date is Apr 3, 09 240 days ago.
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  • Support Groups

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      Was cheated on by my companion over 7 months ago and I haven't healed from it. We are still together, but the trust is gone and he refuses to let go of a friendship with the other woman.

      Treatments

      Pets Somewhat Helpful
      Psychotherapy Not Working
      Didn't go back... couldnt get over the feeling of being judged.
      Support Groups Somewhat Helpful
      New avenue I am trying because I need to be around people who can relate
      Time Not Working
      It only get's worse with time.
    • Close Depression
      Type: Clinical (Major) Depression

      I was in therapy, but was very uncomfortable with the therapist. My psycologist wanted me on 2 different meds, and I want to get through this with out medication. I really think its situational depression and if I can get out of my current situation I will find happiness again. But I was diagnosed with Major Depression by my psychologist and therapist.

      Treatments

      Celexa Not Working
      will not take meds. Was also given a prescription for another that would cause me to sleep and have an appetite but wouldnt take it either. I think it started with a "R"
    • Open Financial Challenges

      Treatments

      Budgeting Too Soon to Tell
      Earn Money Too Soon to Tell
      Filing for Bankruptcy Too Soon to Tell
    • Open Single Parenting

      bluegurl81 hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Interfaith Relationships

      I am Wiccan, he is Christian. He struggles with my faith due to alot of misconceptions from people and other religious sects who dont understand the Wiccan Way.

    • Open Anxiety

      Treatments

      Meditation Somewhat Helpful
      Positive Thinking Somewhat Helpful
    • Open Healthy Relationships

      Been in a relationship for two years and trying to make it work. I love him and care about him, but we see things differently and have different personality traits (I'm ambitious, he's happy to just get by) Trying to find a happy medium that brings us both peace and happiness.

      Treatments

      Patience Not Working
      When we get into an argument, they last for days and are extremely exhausting. He wont let it go, until I see things his way and it is fixed to his liking.
      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      We see things differently.. He can't seem to see things my way, and I can't his way. I usually end up comprimising to keep the peace, but am starting to feel resentful.
      Writing Somewhat Helpful
      I have to write my feelings because he doesnt see things the way I do, and I am wondering if I am viewing our issues from a very closed perception.
    • Open Parenting 'Tweens (9-12)

      I am a single parent of a soon to be 9 year old daughter. She is having so much trouble with school work, and I am at a loss of how to make it better...

      Treatments

      Education (School) Too Soon to Tell
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
    • Open Children Of Divorced Parents

      I married a man whose mother abandoned their twin daughters when they were a year old. Between him, my daughter, his daughters and myself we made a wonderful blended family. The mother came back into the picture when the twins turned 9, and our blended family divided. Going from having a father and sisters to being an only child of a single parent has done severe damage to my daughter,

    • Open Infidelity

      Was cheated on my my bf, and we stayed together to work it out. Somedays are good, and others the triggers are almost unbearable and I am terribly resentful.

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Considering
      Somedays I am okay...other days I hate him.
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