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  • About Me

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    xenobia

    Female, 42
    MA, USA
    Member since August 13, 2008

    • About Me

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  • Journal

    • Another day in the pit

      Mood August 14, 2008 10:24am

      I have discovered where the ow works and yes its a place that we take our children infrequently to the doctor ( not their pediatrician but a …

    • Help what do I do...my H is having an affair

      Mood August 13, 2008 8:43am

      Back in December, I discovered that my husband was having an affair. My first reaction was deep, deep, deep pain as I never thought that would happen …

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    • Ray of Sunshine

      From tylercj December 14, 2008

      Welcome to the Law Of Attraction Group!

    • Snowman

      From gabimary December 13, 2008

      How are you feeling today?

    • Hug

      From Johnna September 18, 2008

      Hey just want to send ya hug How are you?

    • Hug

      From ALC67 September 17, 2008

      So sorry to hear about your H etc. My mom went through that back in '78 when we figured out he was fooling around with a woman at work. They had a HUGE fight at 5 am (after he'd been out for 12 hours) and Mom threw him out of the house. It was tough financially but we made it through and it was one of the best things she ever did. BTW; I have a cat with your name, only I spell it with a 'z'. That's her in Mom's lap in my profile.

    • I’m With You

      From angelwings4u September 5, 2008

      so with you hon, I have 3 little ones and won't give him a chance to break up our family. hugs

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  • Goals

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    Goal End Date is Dec 9, 08 334 days ago.
    Current Weight (Lbs)
    205
  • Support Groups

    • Close Infidelity

      My H is having an affair. I’ve kept my mouth shut to save money to take care of myself and kids. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I am working, saving money, trying to improve marriage, going to therapy, trying to pretend that everything is OK & I am in school to raise salary. I am afraid to confront my H for fear he will leave me or stay & continue the affair. I need time & a financial cushion to soften the blow. I love my H but need to be prepared for him to leave.

    • Close Diets & Weight Maintenance

      I'll be honest, I know I should want to lose weight to be healthier and I do. I think my biggest motivator is to feel sexier, attract my husband more and to be able to wear nicer clothing.

    • Open Healthy Eating

      I am an emotional eater and I want to learn to eat more healthfully.

      Treatments

      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      My h is having an affair and I am trying to figure out my options.

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      The therapist is helping me to explore how I feel.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
    • Open Financial Challenges

      I just found out a few months ago that my H is having an affair that has lasted about 18 months and I need as much help as possible to build a nest egg to soften the blow ifwhen he leaves me or I decide to leave.

      Treatments

      Budgeting Working / Worked
      I'm not doing too well in this department but I keep trying.
      Cut Up Credit Cards Working / Worked
      After I consolidated my debt, I retired my credit cards.
      Debt Consolidation Working / Worked
      I did a balance transfer to consolidate my debt and now I'm paying it offf.
    • Open High Blood Pressure

      I have high blood pressure which is usually managed by medication. I have had it since I had a child a few years ago.

      Treatments

      Cozaar Working / Worked
    • Open Coronary Heart Disease

      I had a triple bypass 6 weeks ago and now I am trying to recover from it.

      Treatments

      Angioplasty Working / Worked
      This was scary but painless.
      Aspirin Working / Worked
      Bypass Surgery (Coronary) Working / Worked
      The surrgery was successful but very painful to recover from.
      Dietary Modification Working / Worked
      Lipitor Working / Worked
      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      I no longer have any endurance but I am slowly building a stronger body.
    • Open Stress Management

      I discovered that my husband was having an affair and since this time I have been under major stress. I must learn to manage it because now I'm recovering from bypass surgery.

      Treatments

      Patience Working / Worked
      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
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