tlscmt97's Journal

I am so f**king pissed off right now! My soon to be ex-husband is contesting the divorce because the paperwork says that he is responsible for half the martial debt and my attorney fees.  I told him that I had told the attorney that he wasn’t responsible and that I had already paid the attorney.  He is contesting it without letting me talk to the attorney first. He had 20 days to file and he couldn't give me a couple days to get it straighten out.  He kept telling me that I did, that I caused him to do this.  I just rolled my eyes but I didn’t say anything.  I don’t even care to argue with him about it.  
My guy friend said my soon to be wants to talk me out of it. I didn't even give him a chance to say anything after he said that was all he needed before I said bye and hung up.
My guy friend said I should have cut loose on his ass. I didn't even want to talk to him because the first thought was “what does he want now“. But figured he got the paperwork and wanted to find out if he signed them.
I’m done. No second chance. no starting over. I’m done. Ill get the rest of his stuff gone this weekend if I can. I’m pissed. I am so fucking fed up with his bullshit. I had a very angry thought that I won't repeat. Just pisses me off that he didn't even give me a chance to talk to the attorney before he filed. Yes I know that is kinda ironic.
My guy friend said the next time I talk to my soon to be I need to  tell him what I think. I’m not going to talk to him again. I’m done.
My guy friend said that my soon to be saying I did this is bs.  That my soon to be did it and I know it. Yeah I know but I don't even care. My guy friend asked me if I was scared. I’m not scared, just done.
It pisses me off that he can't even let me do one thing for myself. Its all about him as usual.
Its about him getting his way. Even if it means hurting me. Just like every time he does something to get in trouble. And as usual he has caused chaos in my life. I was so calm and relaxed before he called. Amazing how one conversation with him causes complete upheaval
My guy friend said my soon to be will win if I let him f**k me up. I’m just pissed off right now. Ill talk to the attorney tomorrow and find out what happens next.