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zoey200823 
7:00pm, November 3, 2009
I've just about had it with my mother. she just crossed the damn line yesterday.
my sister who is 12 years old was at a party yesterday and was running around the house she was at and stoped breathing for no reason. they called an ambulance and they checked her out but she was okay. my mother never called or left a message or nothing. I am so ticked off at her right now. I'm glad my sister is doing well right now I'm very happy to hear that. I'm just scared something is going to happen to her and I'm not going t know about it. My mother is too damn stubborn and too much pride over something we fought about 4+ months ago that she wont tell me anything about anyone in my family anymore.
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I'm sorry sweetie I am glad your little sister is ok and I hope your Mom can change her attitude
Tamberly
YIKES! I;m so glad your sister is fine. That wasn't nice of your mom not to tell you, I mean. YOO are hers sister!! Take care ~heather
heathers74
Please have patience with your Mom. Perhaps she has dementia and doesn't know what is going on.
Benie
That is crazy. No matter what happened betweeen you and your mom you would think when a serious situation arises like this she would let you know.
brandlisa
Yep, that gene runs in my family too.
All we can do is pray and wait for a change of heart, IMHO.
Good luck and Godspeed.
Roadrunner99
Zoey, I guess there is another way you are getting family info? You are just going to have to view your mother as a pothole in the road and learn to go around her. Get a message to your sister however you can that you heard about her scare and can't wait until you two can talk. Of course, try not to mention your mother so you aren't asking her to take sides. They are right that all you can do now is wait, send birthday cards, Christmas cards, and contacts however you can, and if they don't get to her, some day she will know why. Fortunately, she WILL turn 18 some day and you too can pick up where you had to leave off.
SharonKB
Glad your sister is ok.
lvnikita
I know how you feel. Only mine is the other way around. My sister put my mom in a nursing home while I was real sick. She moved her stuff and put it in storage. I found my mother 6 months later. My mom couldn't remember my or my brothers numbers, so didn't see anyone.
Marpo
Hi Zoey
Glad your sister is ok. When I was quite a bit younger I thought my parents didn't know that much. Now I see why things happen the way they did. I am very sorry for your family situation. Since you seem wise, getting some answers to your questions might be a good idea, even if it means letting go of some pride. Saying things while you are angry will just compound the problem. Hugs and rainbows to help you through the day. Good luck.
casapark
Families can be so difficult at times.I have had many problems with my family over the years. The latest being when my mom passed away just recently my sister Donna and I were the only ones out of 10 children that had any contact with her yet when it came time for the funeral and purchasing a headstone for mom Donna and I never got to have any input towards what we thought might be nice so I certainly understand families.Anger doesn't help just try to be cool and try other ways of finding out about your sister maybe through her friends or somethings My prayers are with you and I'm very glad your sister is okay
brenlee12
I hope your sister is okay!
JudylynS
Zoey glad your sister is okay, and I hope time will heal your family issues.
Brenlee12, you have my condolences (hope I spelled that right), you and your sister Donna will reap your rewards for respecting and honoring your mother ten times fold.
FiGhTeR1968
Your sister is so blessed she has you for a sister. I wish your mother couls spend just 1 day, or even half a day in my shoes. I lost my youngest son April 3, 2003, and my oldest son comitted suicide DEC 2007, my step daughter also took her own life 3 days after his memorial service. Do you think she would care about her kids if she had to feel what I feel? It makes me so very angry and so hurt. I am just choking on my tears and pain , but mostly I am so angry at your mother. She should open her eyes, and then say a prayer thanking God for you and your sister. Please keep being there for your little sister. It looks like you are all she has. You are her mom as well as her sister it seems. It is not fair to you or to your sister. Life is not fair. I know that for sure. You are doing such a good thing helping and being there for your sister. Yall will be best friends some day. Prayers and love Peggy
grndmudder
I don't know how, but you have to find a way to communicate with your sister. By pass your mother. Your sister needs you, and your mother is not acting as if she is in her right mind. Peggy
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